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27 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Curious, frisky and empathetic.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on my weltanschauung, sharing what joie de vivre I find, and doing my best to avoid the Welshrats.

Also: working major tennis tournaments for an American broadcast company; for better or worse, over the next month or so I'll be sharing my time between Flushing Meadows and Midtown East, and wherever else I can sneak off to in the in-between times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Public speaking is my dormant forte, though I'll spin a good yarn over a glass of whatever you put in front of me; I'm an attentive listener to boot.

I can coax something of a tune out of whichever instrument I turn my hand to, and can follow recipes with aplomb; I have quite the dexterous touch.
The first things people usually notice about me
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English accent; Irish blue eyes; my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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presently ~

David Budbill

we are
bones and ash,
the roots of weeds
poking through
our skulls.
simple clothes,
empty mind,
full stomach,
alive, aware,
right here,
right now.
Drunk on music,
who needs wine?
Come on,
let’s go dancing
while we’ve
still got feet.

Akira Kurosawa - Ikiru
English comedy
Lots of oud music
Mexican street food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. a musical instrument
2. natural splendour/desire
3. pen
4. paper
5. spare toothbrush
6. tea/art

I could do without tinnitus.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
global politics; what to eat; where to go; what to see; sex; suffering; the good life.

~~~ empty phenomena rolling on ~~~

telling quote:
“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve (or save) the world and a desire to enjoy (or savor) the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.”
― E.B. White
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As a youth, I played football for a professional club and regret somewhat ever having falling out of love with the game. When I watch, read about or listen to footballers I remember why, but very occasionally still find myself longing to be one.
You can take this as a personally revealing anecdote, or a sorry and inconsequential boast, perhaps it's both and you take it as neither, but it's as private as it comes.
You should message me if
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I admire and am interested in all kinds of people...

You're keen, because something I've written chimed with your self.
You're interested, but hesitant because something I've written jarred with your self: tell me, go on.
Or, you don't care what I've written (words are blunt instruments) but like the look of my face.

You're eager to leave this seemingly useful but limited medium swiftly and see how we get on in real life.