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26 Utica, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jan 17
Hispanic / Latin, White
4′ 10″ (1.47m)
Body type
Not at all
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Mostly monogamous
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Hello. Just looking for friends here. If you're looking for anything sexual, move on. I also don't live in NY anymore. It's a ruse.

I'm in a non-traditional relationship. Don't let that confuse you. I'm faithful to both and not looking for anyone else. I'm married to Missense and in a serious relationship with mikecowpg.


Now then!

What I'm looking for?

Friends, but more likely conversational partners. Let's just see if we can influence one another in some cool ways. To tell the truth, I can't promise you I'll stay in touch. ... Not yet. I've been too transient for too long, and well, I already have closer friends I need to nurture.

Maybe we'll even hang out? Maybe we'll actually be friends? ... I... as you can see, I'm in a bit of a transitional state.

But either way, I propose we trade secrets, insights, and wishes. That quick and honest way that strangers sometimes do, and perhaps we'll learn from one another. Does that sound like something you'd like to do? I'm here.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have moved into a new home. It's freakin' awesome!

My primary occupations seem to revolve around homemaking and taking care of people close to me. Lately I have been setting up my new home, rediscovering things I have packed away long ago, and getting organized in ways I have never been before. I am doing my best to take care of myself, my husband, and my boyfriend.

Lately I've been really into coordinating and syncing things like shopping lists, calendars, and to do lists. It's been working well and has made things easier. These endeavors relate to efforts involving keeping the house well-stocked with the fewest trips, meal planning, and social coordination.

So... yeah! Homemaking is both an intrinsic interest, plus, I get to take care of my men better. They've both been unbelievably amazing to me. Among my dearest wishes is to be able to take care of them and bring them happiness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short. (4'10" or 1.47m)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Listed alphabetically. Feel free to skim. This is long and meant more as a time capsule for myself.

MOVIES – First of all, I hate horror. It makes me bawl and panic. This is a source of embarrassment to me. Some things that scare me or sadden me that shouldn't. I wish I was stronger.

Bluffmaster, The Dark Knight, Donnie Darko, Gran Torino, Hook, Labyrinth, Lucky Number Slevin, The Matrix, Millennium Actress, Spider-Man 2

TV – Archer, Lilyhammer, Modern Family, Orange is the New Black

ANIME - Attack on Titan, Demon King, School Rumble, Watamote

1984 - George Orwell
Awareness – Anthony De Mello
The Celestine Prophecy – James Redfield
Everything Bad is Good for You – Steven Johnson
Harry Potter – J. K. Rowling
His Dark Materials – Phillip Pullman
Organizing from the Inside-Out – Julie Morgenstern
Prelude to Foundation - Isaac Asimov

MUSIC – I like a lot of types, but I'm no expert on any of them. I used to like some music on the radio, until the past few years, I think... Now, I'm finding it difficult to find music I like and this worries me. I seem to be attracted to a lot of stuff that was popular in another country- maybe 15 years ago. (This is not a source of pride to me. … I'd like it if more people enjoyed the music I like. And I wish this stuff was easier to find.) I like a lot of dynamic stuff: Bollywood, Israeli music, electronica, internet remixes, symphonic metal...

24 hours – Jem
Angels - Within Temptation
Chori Chori – Arash ft Aneela
Freestailo Remix (from Superstar KZ)
Hold Your Colour - Pendulum
Levan Polka - Dj Slon ft Loituma
Mirror's Edge Theme – Lisa Miskovsky
Monolith of Doubt - After Forever
One Desire – Jarkarta
Prachim Bakane - Sabliminal
Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego - Rockapella

FOOD- I love eggs and plain greek yogurt a lot, often together. (Seriously tasty.) I try to add spinach, tomatoes, mushrooms, onions, and sometimes tofu to a lot of dishes. Best dishes: tacos, chicken curry, and salmon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Ability to Share (and be shared with)
2. Naps
3. Heat source and/or fuzzy sweater and/or blanket
4. Cuddles
5. Appreciation/Understanding
6. Hot showers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
optimal layouts and systems of organization. Optimal ways to express oneself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If home, I'm very likely using a computer in one way or another. I could be browsing the internet, playing Spelunky, or watching a series.

Alternatively, hanging out with friends. I'm fortunate to finally be living in the city where most of them are.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not... yet.
You should message me if
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you've read my self-summary, understand my expectations, and yet you still want our worlds to collide.

Start talking. Really talking. Not "How are you?" Don't flirt with me. Don't just ask if I want to chat. Share something meaningful. And, maybe you did all that. Then, I'm sorry, I can't promise I'll be prompt or there at all. Not yet. (I may not deserve you and you don't have to message me.)