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37 Mountain View, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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One thing I can say about myself is that I'm a generalist. I admit that it can be tough being a generalist in a world of specialists, but as sci-fi author Heinlein said, "specialization is for insects". I'm happy to know that I can bake a pie, lay baseboards, write a song, and start a business.

I'm also a optimist. Sometimes I have to fight hard to keep this outlook, but this attitude has served me well so I'm keeping it.

I'm a loyal friend and my friends are akin to my family. I am always available to them, available for comfort, hugs, or chocolate. I am a transplant from South Carolina, and though my accent has faded, my hospitality and smiles still shine. :)

I've experienced much beauty in the world, whether I was teaching English in Guadalajara, gazing over green rice fields in Kerala, India, flirting with red poppies on the Camino de Santiago, or decoding the full white moon over the Yellowstone River. In short, I love travel.

Also, I'm fun! I can be a little crass sometimes, a little edgy, but always present and ready to live inside whatever moment awaits me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing medical massage for a chiropractor. Soon to be working as a personal trainer too. I approach health, personally and professionally, with a laser focus.

Always trying to write new music and performing when I can. Practicing a new instrument.

My debut album:

A world music collaboration:
I’m really good at
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Learning new things. Appreciating beauty. Being a loyal friend. Getting people's shirts off at parties. Tuning into animals. Kissing. Appreciating beauty. Nurturing my friends, family, and anyone who is open to it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, dark blue eyes, and warmth. That I look way younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've been inspired by books like Reading Lolita in Tehran, Three Cups of Tea, Radical Simplicity, Getting Things Done. I enjoy books about Middle East politics, culture, literature, and people. Other authors I like: Tom Robbins, PKD, Augusten Burroughs.

I'm not really a movie buff. I'd take a campfire over a theatre any day. But when I'm home I love watching comedy, musical performances, and documentaries about social issues.

My taste in music ranges wildly. But I especially like passionate female singer songwriters, ambient, and world music. Musicians I like: Yasmin Levy, Tycho, Yann Tiersen, Santana, Cat Empire, Someone Still Loves you Boris Yeltsin, Adelle, Strunz and Farah, Sinead O Conner, Shawn Colvin, Florence and the Machine, Death Cab for Cutie, Cat Stevens, B52's, Dead Can Dance, Luscious Jackson, Vampire Weekend.

I like seeing live music in really small intimate venues. I've cultivated a special passion and love for Persian classical music. Also, I love flamenco.

I Looooooove food. I like to cook for people, especially Southern style comfort food. I eat Indian, Thai, Persian- I make a lot of those dishes. I'm experimenting with gluten free crepes and dosa. I like to go out for a beer or have a glass of wine with dinner.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
My amazing sweet cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, motivations, character, interactions, the natural world, beauty, food, self-growth. How I'm craving to live somewhere other than Silicon Valley. (Thinking Berkeley in 6 months or so)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Something low key like hot-tubbing or hanging with a friend. Maybe dancing to international music. Checking out a speaker series. Perhaps curled up with a book and having a nice dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book and don't really have too many secrets. I used to be careful around nude photos because I thought that one day it would be possible I'd decide to run for president. Guess not. ;)

Also, I was married once.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a woman to have some great adventures with, one who is quick-minded, gentle-hearted and extremely fun to be around.

You want to fly me to an exotic place. (Not Guantanamo) :)

You know that love is passion and action, have had significant relationship experience and either know, or have learned after-the-fact, what it takes to nurture an emotional connection.

You appreciate an independent woman.

You'd enjoy dating someone from another culture. Exploring bi-cultural intersections is fun. As long as you were raised progressively, with an appreciation for arts, music, and women.

You want to jam together or discover live music.

No matter how many times you've seen Yosemite, you're still in love with it.

Note: I dont respond to "hey" or "hello". That doesnt work for me in any way.

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