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43 F Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Note: I am traveling for work this time 0f year so in DC on and off. Fyi if I am not as responsive, I will reach out closer to time when I am heading back that way.-----

I guess I could say “I am a woman in motion that would like to be caught to share some goodness with a good man!” My life is active and probably different than many and has it's own +'s and -'s. Think a mix of sporty/sophisticated, bohemian/businesswoman, edgy/natural. I like alternative and simple things. I basically work hard, exercise, enjoy where I am, love my people, and explore as much as I can. I try to keep things real yet classy and have found that “grace” and of course courage can get you through an awful lot. I believe that one short-term plan after another can eventually add up to the best kinds of futures. BEFORE you read too much you should know that now I still spend large amounts of time in Costa Rica for work along with the other 50ish% of my time split between DC/Snowshoe,WV. I work online between bookings so have varied flexibility since now my "in person" work commitments are seasonal. My ultimate goal is to establish my US homebase outside DC. My family is at the heart of this and also being more open to romance, and checking out the possibility of love again! It’s true, I said it!!! I have a dog, all boy boxer, named “Cori” (Corazon) and am close to my family and a few good friends that are spread all over. I have an identical twin so intimacy is important to me. (I know what you are thinking. It's okay; I know you can't help it!)
What I’m doing with my life
-Renovating 5 year old biz, stabilizing work life (I own an event production company which now mostly produces destination weddings in Costa Rica). Basically I want to expand on that so I can explore new things.
-Being closer to family as my parents in WV get older and support my sister in DC raising her kids and get to enjoy them all more too!
-Right now I am focusing on "simmering" or finding how to live more "in the middle" at a more even pace.
-For fitness I prefer CrossFit kind of stuff to gyms and do yoga when I can because it helps me SO much.
-I love all exercise outdoors and like to mountain bike, run, swim. Also I like to try different things, that I don't know well like snowboarding, surf, cross country skiing, maybe rock climbing someday, most anything. I could be a good assistant camper:).
I’m really good at
Making things happen. I made art all growing up and then got into film making, production and directed some theatre in NYC, then events/weddings for the last 10 years in Costa Rica. I love a challenge, like to collaborate, and genuninely enjoy making people happy. I am a good interpretive listener and value being able to put myself in someone else's shoes and understand things from their perspective so I think compassion too. I am a loyal friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm... not sure.
So I will go with things people have said:
My appearance-That I have “nice skin”.
My body-Appreciation of my bum, booty, "back”. Not going to get into adjectives here. Too embarrassing since I don’t know you and you don’t know my butt.
My strut-I move fast and walk with purpose! People that work for me, call me "batteria/battery".
My accent- It's a little weird because of being raised in West Virginia, living in NYC 10 years, and speaking Spanish in Costa Rica for the last 10 years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too hard to name favorites but...
Reading: The Power of Now, Animal Vegetable Miracle, always like historical novels.
I love eating: avocado, dates for desert, anything green, soupS, edamame, GOOD wine, coffee, green tea, chips/ salsa, Costa Rican breakfast, Indian food, sushi/ sashimi, anything spicy! Could take or leave sweets.
Watching: not much honestly, used to be a movie buff but living in Central America forces you to lower your standards so much that I have lost interest for now. Update: Being in US again "The Big Bang Theory" is cracking me up, also "Modern Family" and I realized how much I missed Charlie Rose and Saturday Night Live.
I listen to: I am an admitted music slut. I have lots of DJ friends and lazy with finding my own music so whatever they give me, is on my friends' iPods or jango, pandora or KCRWElectic24. Ooo also just discovered RockMYRun. Love it!
The six things I could never do without
My sister and her kids in DC.
A "pursuit" that inspires, propels me.
Nature. I lived in THE city (NYC) before but now need to be connected to green, sun, air and less concrete on a regular basis.
Pets, especially dogs, just make my day to day better.
Laughter, sense of humor, and ability to make fun of ourselves and life's ironic situations. I am pretty intense so this gives me the levity to deal with it all.
Wifi connection. It is how I survive so gotta have it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I can learn from things that have happened. What is priority and how to save time. How, when, where I am going to travel next, or what fun thing I have to do to look forward to in my week, month, or year. Ah, ha moments where I finally understand something that I did not before.
On a typical Friday night I am
In CR my jobs often fall on the weekends. BUT if NOT, by the weekend I am still pretty tired:) BUT I also work from home so am kind of itching to get out of the house or see someone other than my dog so Dinner, Good Conversation. When in DC be with my sister and her kids or "Out" for a a few drinks. Now in my life, I love mornings, so going to bed early with a book so as to get up and get outside early the next day to do something physical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In general I have a hard shell but am a mush inside so in person I would probably make a joke about myself to reveal some ironic truth or vulnerability. To put here, hmmm: I tend to like alpha guys (i know not so bright) but I do mean that in a good sense so ones that are still deep, respect strong woman, and care about being a good person too (yea I know?!#8@). One stupid thing is that sometimes when I am feeling unmotivated for work, I wear my niece's bunny ears or princess crown. It really helps. One time she caught me and explained in kind of a condescending voice that "they do not have any power but are just toys, FOR KIDS!"
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You find me attractive and want to get to know me and see if we have a connection and some chemistry between us. Yes this is relevant. A female agrees!
-You have had your heart broken at least once so you have some wisdom and compassion in there too.
-You like to kiss, with tongue:). Sorry non-kissers, just not interested. For me this is the gateway to seduction and all the yummy good that comes after. Plus if you don't want to explore each others' mouths then you probably won't be very open to much else and where is the fun in that?! Learned recently guess this needs to be said, crazy i know.
-You are not lookin' for your "baby mamma". Although my stuff still works, I don't have a burning desire to be "with child" at this point despite biological clocks and all that. So if you are still "eventually, someday, or might want more" on that point I am probably not your girl. That being said I would love to participate in family, which is very important to me, and I know I have a lot to offer to the people and kids that are close to me.
-You like who you are and want to get to know me.
-You want to date and have fun but are ultimately looking for something remarkable in a relationship, something with depth, weight and distance. Basically you are happy and just want a relationship if it is “really right”.
-You USE communication and trial n' error in relationships and don’t need perfection but still have some standards.
-You know how to apologize and will demand me to do the same when it is due:) You are mature enough to have hard conversations if needed.
-You travel. Like I said I produce destination weddings in Costa Rica so still spend significant chunks of time there (so you might want to come visit me:) even if I do work online most anywhere between bookings and am creating a US "homebase" here. Plus I want to plan travel other places too-Thailand, Vietnam, Africa, Brazil, Barcelona, Morroco, Egypt, where you want to go?!
-You are up for a life, love adventure with the right woman and think maybe that could be me!