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38 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:35am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I am hard to summarize.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach middle school and send lots of postcards.
I’m really good at
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eating, arranging food attractively on a plate, reading maps and navigating public transportation systems, finding excuses to go to the beach, wearing flip flops, using apostrophes correctly, putting together furniture from Ikea, seeing connections between totally unrelated things, and time management.

I have decent skills in swimming, scuba diving, running, painting, playing the clarinet, playing scrabble, and kung fu, but those are things I will never claim to be "really good at" because there is always room for more growth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Honestly, that I'm Asian. This kind of bothers me on some level, but I feel like this is a reality that I just have to learn to deal with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/authors: Arundhati Roy, Haruki Murakami, Salman Rushdie, George Saunders, Mary Roach, The Great Gatsby, The Little Prince, The Giver, Tao Te Ching. I read an embarrassing amount of YA fiction because I teach middle school and try to keep up with what my students are reading.

Movies: Brazil, The Graduate, The Matrix, I Heart Huckabees, The Sound of Music, Mary Poppins, Singin' in the Rain, Spirited Away, stuff by Tim Burton.

Shows: I don't watch TV, except when I fly JetBlue. I have a soft spot for cooking shows.

Music: Leonard Cohen, The Cure, The Smiths, Cesaria Evora, Peter Murphy, Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin, Simon & Garfunkel, Bjork, Nick Cave, Magnetic Fields, Chopin, almost anything involving a clarinet.

Food: I love food. I was a vegetarian for 20 years and quit recently, so I'm trying to catch up on what I missed.

I have a hard time saying "no" to anything that involves handmade noodles, blueberries, peaches, avocados, sundried tomatoes, cilantro, butternut squash, artichokes, goat cheese, BUTTER, condensed milk, black sesame, gesztenyepure, or fresh whipped cream. Not all together, of course.

When eating out, I tend to go for: Moroccan, Indian, Mexican, Greek, Turkish, Korean, Venezuelan, Vietnamese, "New American". I like Chinese food, but I'm picky about it because I ate really good Chinese food growing up. I also have a special place in my heart for breakfast foods.
The six things I could never do without
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Trader Joe's
the Cyclone
the ocean
something to read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
food, teaching, and people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing laundry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I still have mix tapes that people made for me in high school and college. And I listen to them regularly.
You should message me if
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- you are a person of your word.
- you want to share something delicious with me.
- if you'd like to go dancing, make something, or swap backrubs.
- if you can teach me how to tune a cello.
- just to be clear: i have a boyfriend who i love dearly. we're exploring the idea of dating others, separately and/or together. it would be helpful if you were open-minded and communicative. i'm more interested in meeting female and genderqueer people here, but am open to meeting men and couples.
- you are patient. i'm in full-blown middle-of-the-school-year mode, so i probably won't be very active on here.