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38 • Brooklyn, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 29–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
I have decent skills in swimming, scuba diving, running, painting, playing the clarinet, playing scrabble, and kung fu, but those are things I will never claim to be "really good at" because there is always room for more growth.
Movies: Brazil, The Graduate, The Matrix, I Heart Huckabees, The Sound of Music, Mary Poppins, Singin' in the Rain, Spirited Away, stuff by Tim Burton.
Shows: I don't watch TV, except when I fly JetBlue. I have a soft spot for cooking shows.
Music: Leonard Cohen, The Cure, The Smiths, Cesaria Evora, Peter Murphy, Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin, Simon & Garfunkel, Bjork, Nick Cave, Magnetic Fields, Chopin, almost anything involving a clarinet.
Food: I love food. I have a hard time saying "no" to anything that involves handmade noodles, blueberries, peaches, avocados, sundried tomatoes, spicy lamb, cilantro, butternut squash, artichokes, goat cheese, BUTTER, condensed milk, black sesame, fresh corn tortillas, cardamom, gesztenyepure, or fresh whipped cream. Not all together, of course. I also have a special place in my heart for breakfast foods. And ice cream.
something to read
- you want to share something delicious with me.
- if you'd like to go dancing, make something, or swap backrubs.
- if you can teach me how to tune a cello or make a quilt.
- you care about social justice, especially if you have creative ideas for activism.
- just to be clear: i have a boyfriend (WriteThinkBuild) who i love dearly. we're exploring the idea of dating others, separately and/or together. it would be helpful if you were open-minded and communicative. i'm more interested in meeting female and genderqueer people here, but am open to meeting men and couples.
- note: i'm getting back into the school year after a long, relaxing summer vacation, so i probably won't be very active on here.
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