What IS IT with people?? Everyone wants open-mindedness and honesty but no one seems able to have the ability to recognize it when they get it? Is it THAT rare??

MUST KNOW - I'm single and PREGNANT! I'll be having my first child in July 2013. Now if THAT doesn't send you screaming for the "back" button then I suppose there's hope. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me and/or the baby. I'm fully capable of taking care of myself with the support of my family and friends. If that's something you can handle then by all means message me. What I AM looking for is a companion, friend, and possibly long term relationship with the right person. I'm no stranger to pain and heartache and have a highly decorated doctorate in the school of life - a lot of which was very challenging. I regret nothing; however, as all of my experiences good and bad have made me into the person I am today. I happen to be very fond of that person.

I currently live with my sister and her family but am VERY soon to be living on my own. I'm VERY excited about that prospect and want it to happen very soon. I spend a lot of time cooking, cleaning, on the Internet, chatting with friends, spending time with the kids in my life, and preparing for my own!

Cooking, IT stuff, listening, gardening, deep discussions about life and the spiritual realm.

My eyes.

Books/Authors: Fantasy books, James Patterson, Dean Koontz, Cassandra Claire. Movies: Pretty Woman, Shawshank Redemption, Action, Love stories, SOME horror. Music: Very eclectic and ranged tastes. Fav band: Metallica. Food: Not very picky.

Diet coke, family, friends, God, sugar, LOVE.

What it will be like to be a Mom at 40!

Chillin' on the computer, reading, or watching movies/TV with the fam.

You're happy with who you are and can handle a very passionate person.