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lavendermike

32 / M / Straight / Single

Thousand Oaks, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:29am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I've been through so much in this life. To summarize it in one paragraph seems so unrealistic. I am; a hopeless romantic, passionate about music, a lover of all cultures, a foodie, very health oriented, a traveler, open-minded, an avid reader, and I am proud to be me.. If you'd like to know more, please feel free to ask me anything.

Favorite quotes:

“the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.”
― Jack Kerouac, On the Road

“If you can walk with the crowd and keep your virtue, or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute with 60 seconds worth of distance run- Yours is the earth and everything that's in it, And-which is more-you'll be a man my son.”
- Rudyard Kipling, if: A Fathers Advice to His Son
What I’m doing with my life
Living it to the fullest! I work a lot, but I won't that deter me from being spontaneous, no matter how tired I am the next day (isn't that what coffee is for?)
I’m really good at
Making people smile, any outdoor activities, working out, writing music, commanding a crowd, entertaining those I care about, helping people through tough times, expressing compassion and empathy, cooking, and meeting new people..
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people notice my smile, and I've been told I have an honest face, whatever that means..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This could be an extremely long list. I'll try to keep it short and sweet.
Favorite books: on the road, the alchemist, sidhartha, peoples history of the united states, scar tissue, and the list goes on..
Movies: I love classic films, but i also enjoy watching a romantic comedy with someone special
Music: I love it all! There is no genre of music that I don't enjoy. if I had to choose a favorite band, I'd probably pick radiohead.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Love
Family
Friends
Books
Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My family, people I care about, those less fortunate than myself etc..
On a typical Friday night I am
Up for anything. I enjoy trying new things all the time, if you don't believe me, then try me..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You'd like to get to know a genuine guy..