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lavenderrae

28 F 广州, China

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 23–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:02am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm always up for an intelligent conversation, a cup of coffee, or seeing something new.

Presently I teach at a university in Huadu district, about two hours from Guangzhou. I'm a bit new to China and I'll admit that some things here freak me out. Before China, I was in South Korea for a year but I've traveled a lot throughout Asia and parts of Eastern Europe. Originally, I'm from Seattle, WA, I was a barista there for 8 years.

INFJ. An introvert often confused for an extrovert. Witty. Compassionate. Intelligent.

I love the smell of rain, coffee houses, and used bookstores. I'm also a Christian and my faith is pretty important to me.

I'm not the perfect girl you've always been looking for.
I'm the imperfect one you didn't know you needed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach English. I'm trying to get some writing and reading done while I'm working a job that has me teaching less hours. So far, this simply means that I nap more than I used to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
finding new, interesting places. getting lost. getting excited about nothing. improvising desserts. reading. quoting obscure poets. making coffee. drinking said coffee. making more coffee. refurbishing old furniture. sarcastic commentary. pretending not to notice something. noticing everything. loving my friends. cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"You're that girl who makes the really witty comments on facebook" is the what I've most recently been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anna Karenina, mostly anything by David Sedaris, Russian Literature in general, British literature in general, Anne Lamot, Annie Dillard, Chang Rae-Lee, The Glass Menagerie by Tennessee Williams, Shakespeare

To name a few, but this list could go...

POETS: Two of my favorite poets are Li Young Lee and Matthew Dickman.

I read creative nonfiction, mostly. So, a lot of memoir.

I don't watch much TV.

I love theatre. Anything by Stephen Sondheim

As far as food goes, I like everything but seafood isn't my favorite.

MUSIC: Copeland, mewithoutYou, Emiliana Torrini, Beruit, deathcabforcutie, Kishi Bashi, Lana Del Rey, Band of Horses, Beach House, Foster the People, Cumulus, ect.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
blank paper
dark coffee
warm hands
loyalty
inside jokes
time alone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the art of memory
stories
how to make healthy food
the people I love
irony
finding peace
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
it depends on the Friday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm on okcupid. You can see that, can't you? That's pretty much the most private thing I'm willing to admit on here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a reader. You are intelligent. You believe in God. You want a real long term relationship.

I'm not here for hook-ups. :)