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lavenderrae

28 F 广州, China

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a writer/photographer/poet currently living and teaching in Asia. I move to China in mid-September where I'll be teaching English and literature at a university.

I'm a bit of a chameleon. I can be whatever you want me to be. Or rather, what my current situation needs me to be.

INFJ. An introvert often confused for an extrovert. Witty. Compassionate. Intelligent.

I love the smell of rain, coffee houses, and used bookstores. I'm also a Christian and my faith is pretty important to me.

I'm not the perfect girl you've always been looking for.
I'm the imperfect one you didn't know you needed.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach English.
I’m really good at
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finding new, interesting places. getting lost. getting excited about nothing. improvising desserts. reading. quoting obscure poets. making coffee. drinking said coffee. making more coffee. refurbishing old furniture. sarcastic commentary. pretending not to notice something. noticing everything. loving my friends. cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"You're that girl who makes the really witty comments on facebook" is the what I've most recently been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anna Karenina, Brave New World, mostly anything by David Sedaris, Russian Literature in general, British literature in general, Anne Lamot, Annie Dillard, Chang Rae-Lee, The Glass Menagerie by Tennessee Williams, Shakespeare

To name a few, but this list could go...

POETS: Two of my favorite poets are Li Young Lee and Matthew Dickman.

I read creative nonfiction, mostly. So, a lot of memoir.

I don't watch much TV.

I love theatre. Anything by Stephen Sondheim

As far as food goes, I like everything but seafood isn't my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
blank paper
dark coffee
warm hands
loyalty
inside jokes
time alone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the art of memory
stories
how to make healthy food
the people I love
irony
finding peace
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
it depends on the Friday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm on okcupid. You can see that, can't you? That's pretty much the most private thing I'm willing to admit on here.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a reader. You are intelligent. You believe in God. You want something more than just sex.