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lavidien

21 / M / gay / Single

Longmont, Colorado

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am Strange, Random, and Loud.

My Self-Summary

I'm not quite sure how to describe myself. I like to go out and have a good time while meeting new people. I like to make outlandish declarations that have no bearing on the current conversation, and I like to do random cartoon impressions. I bounce around, and I skip in public. I think that shame is detrimental to my growth as a human being. I sing out loud to the radio, and I dont care who hears me. I would like to live my life one smile to the next.
I enjoy reading, and my favorite authors include Anne Bishop, Anne Rice, and Terry Goodkind. Some movie I love are Legend, and Twilight. I am a close person, and by that I mean that I very much enjoy physical contact...Hugging, kissing, cuddling. I am done with all these mister right nows and I want to move on to mister forever. I know it won't happen right away, but that is my goal. Just ask me whatever you want because if you have the balls to ask it I can at least grant you an answer. So if you want to know me then talk to me. I am waiting.

What I’m doing with my life

Well...I am working to save enough money for college. I want to be a nurse or a teacher at the moment but who's to say that wont change in a year or two. What I know is that I want to help people. I want to amke a notable difference in the life of others. A positive difference. I want to change the world through my actions, and I believe it can be done.

I’m really good at

Talking, Acting, Helping others with thier problems, Hugs, ummm...many bedroom activities lol or so I hear...I like to sing and I think I sound okay, but I am not sure. I love to cook and I do make the best choclate chip cookies known to man lol.

The first things people usually notice about me

My bright green eyes and my voice seem to be what I hear about the most.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:

The twilight series, The sword of Shanara seires, The sword of truth saga, the wheel of time saga, any thing by mercades Lackey, Rainbow Boys, Rainbow High, Rainbow Road, and So hard to say. The vampire chronicles, The Hobbit, Lord of the Flies, Macbeth, How to kill a mocking bird, Romeo and Juliet, Anything Anne Rice or JRR Tolkien, Sebastion, Belladonna, Dreams made flesh, Heir to shadows, The decendants of merlin series. I just love to read so give me books and I will read them

Music:

Gin Blossoms, Goodnight Nurse, but mostly the 90s, Eve 6, HIM, AFI, Madonna, All American Rejects, Nirvana, Avril Laviegn, Fall Out Boy, EMF, Right Said Fred, Cindy Lauper, Pat Benatar, Hinder, Nine Inch Nails, My Chemicle Romance, Creed, Live, Fuel, Three Days Grace, Blue October, Cascada, Mozart, Bach, Blink 182, The Eagles, Cross Canadian Ragweed, Korn, Run DMC, Disturbed, TATU, Evanesence, Martina Mcbride, Marcie's Playground, Mary J. Blige, Patsy Cline, Sherryl Crow, Kid rock, Nickleback, Enya, Kansas, The Beetles, Bob Seager, Stix, Heart, The Rolling Stones, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Slip Knot, Ray Charles, Elton John, Fergie, Nelly Furtado, Justin Timberlake, The Bloodhound Gang, ICP, Puddle of Mudd, The Tempations, Papa Roach, Uncle Cracker, Sara Mclaughin, Aerosmith, Breaking Benjamin, Marilyn Manson, Black Sabath, ACDC...You get the Idea!

Food:

I very much like to cook so I like a wide variety of foods. However nothing beats a good old fashioned southern meal

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The six things I could never do without

1. My dreams
2. My friends
3. Love
4. Hugs
5. Books
6. My sense of wonder

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I am going to do with my life and where the next journey will take me.
I wonder if castration would be preferable to dating....it prolly hurts about the same but once its gone the dating cant hurt you anymore and your nub will only hurt for a month or so...

On a typical Friday night I am

either working or hanging with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Absolutley any thing you are comfortable asking me about. If you have the balls to want the anwser...I can and will give it. Make sure you want the answer though.

You should message me if

You want my friendship or anything more. I will give anyone a chance.