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lavitaebono

41 Cork, Ireland Man

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I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
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Drugs
Never
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Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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well according to my parole officer, the lads in the cell and the three judges I appeared before, I am a decent type of guy ( for those serious and nervous types the reference to prison is a joke) well spoken, genuine and can make a great chocolate mousse. I have two women fighting for my affections at present..unfortunately they are my nieces and one is 3 and the other is 7 so i guess that doesn't count. I'm 5' 7 very fit and take pride in my appearance but not to any septic degree. I am well educated and can make lego with only the ocassional mistake and only been unfaithful once...when i was 5 and my significant other was 4 and well i was tempted away by an older woman of 5 and 1/2 who had a spare ice lolly! I take serious things seriously and non seriously things with a smile so i hope i'm quite balanced. I can take the mick out of myself, enjoy humour but i'm no clown either( except for aforementioned nieces entertainment only)I am an unashamable romantic and that means being thoughtful, creative and imaginative. I love family and that sense of homeliness but i enjoy nothing more than a weekend break in a foreign city, as i glare through the sun and watch the locals rush past, oblivious to my relaxed presence, me pondering what glorious site to see next and the tasty local morsels that will tempt me en route!! i am a qualified lawyer and school teacher and currently undertaking a degree in psychotherapy to keep the grey cells active as I spent the last two years caring for my terminally ill mum and dad who sadly passed away the last year..the best job I ever had:)....wdnt change a day of it except for spending even more time with them. Material things dont matter to me and having worked in africa, human rights, refugee law etc i can vouch that money and possesions mean very little at the end of the day...that said im no hippy and enjoy some consumerism but im not obsessed by it...if i cant have something i dont cry myself to sleep...im not an envious person as i feel i have alot and im very fortunate to have had the folks i was given:)

because of the recession we may have to sit around a pot hole with a straw and drink some rain water....but only if our respective parish priests come to make sure all is above board because I can be shy at times especially in the presence of a pretty lady...by the way, the wife and kids havent had a decent day out in ages so if it's ok can i bring them too?
What I’m doing with my life
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enjoying it. I believe in living in the now but not in an irresponsible way....balance is important and Ive learnt material things have little subtance but like a grain of salt on a chip can add taste but doesnt mean it's useless without it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing, cooking, sport, music ( play the guitar and a wee bit of piano). I am an expert at babysitting ( just ask my nieces). I am an olympic gold medalist at drowning and I love to read.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is my shoes heels as i runaway from the scene of the crime lol...i guess im sincere, humble, and a good communicator
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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film? hmm la vita e bella, the shawshank and gladiator to name but a few. Books? Im an avid dickens fan but i also like m scott peck. Music, eclectic taste ranging from: classical, pop, rock, my niece yelling in the kitchen, soul, r and b etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my conscience, paper and a pen, clean underwear and my friends wallet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
like everyone i wonder why im here ( i mean on planet earth not on this website. I have a good stab at the meaning of life....to me it's about people and learning lessons to develop oneself and others along the way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depending..i like the odd pint but im anyones after three including some old biddy who is legless....im that easy lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sing in the shower....i also play electric guitar but i found that electricity and water arent a great combo
You should message me if
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you're sane ( i have a scale of one to ten..one being you love shoes and even the sound of soul music reminds you of a heel...to ten where you boil bunnies and deep fry them after just for giggles). I have dated some separated women and altho i dont like to generalise I think they usually fall between numbers nine and ten : projected anger or just mellow and emotionally unavailable so ...take your time ladies....get yourselves together and then go dating if i were you. It's a hard road but give yourself time first. I know it can be tough but sort yourself out first...loads of time to get back out there