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lawdeur

44 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 9:42am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Pros: Loyal, stable, smart, honest, affectionate, the odd person finds me funny, not BAD looking, aesthetically inclined, fairly cultured, unconventional, sentimental, emotionally sensitive.
Cons: Picky, sometimes do less than I'm capable of, can be self-indulgent, stubborn, trying to be more romantic and spontaneous, change averse, periodically taciturn and aloof-seeming.
What I’m doing with my life
Making pretty good progress professionally and I'm happy with my lifestyle. Pretty much can do what I want when I want. My friends are awesome. Looking for someone who excites and surprises me and I can't tell anyone how to do that, it would defeat the purpose.
I’m really good at
Reflecting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Brideshead Revisited
Apocalypse Now/Gone With the Wind

Almost all music
Same with food except offal
The six things I could never do without
ECIG, Friends , family, air conditioning, money, my glasses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Making my friends cook for me and ply me with wine.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Hot, smart and capable of monogamy at some point. If you botox your face or dye your hair we're probably not a match.