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30 Gillingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a straightforward person and believe honesty is an important trait- I'm not perfect, but I don't expect anyone else to be either. Life's here for us to enjoy, so I'm looking for someone to share a few good times with- some laughs and some new experiences.

According to the Myers-Briggs test, I'm an ISTJ, if that's the kind of thing that floats your boat.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment, I work as an Education Co-Ordinator and Tour Guide at Dickens World. It's a lot of fun meeting new people every day, and especially seeing kids faces light up when something you're telling them about clicks in their head.

I also get to use my degree in French at work from time to time, and I'm always keen to get the opportunity to speak it. I'm an absolute Francophile and lived over there for a year while at Uni.

The job also gives me a lot of time to undertake projects in my spare time, and I've usually got a few things going on- some admittedly a bit geekier than others. I've also recently become involved with a startup immersive theatre troupe, and played a central role in a Murder Mystery event which was great fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at putting people at ease when meeting them for the first time. I'm quite easygoing by nature, especially when I meet someone new, and I'm not a particularly private or secretive person, which makes conversation a lot easier.

I'm also good at maintaining friendships. Between Uni, living in France, and working in catering, I've got a lot of friends dotted all over the place, and I think it's important to make an effort to visit people and catch up. Taking a trip somewhere to visit someone for the first time in a while, even if only for a few hours, is time well spent.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm dressed like a Victorian gentleman.

Outside of work, not so much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) I read quite a bit- Ben Elton is my favourite author. Others lining my shelves include John Niven, Marina Lewycka and Bill Bryson.

b) "Cool Runnings" is the greatest film ever made- it is excellent in pretty much every respect. The Chilean film "Machuca" is also fantastic, and I'd highly recommend it to anyone who doesn't mind films with subtitles. I am also just a little bit in love with "Battle Royale", both the novel and film.

c) "Community" may just be the best show ever created, with "30 Rock", "Parks and Recreation" and "The Big Bang Theory" also up there. "Daria" is, of course, an all-time classic. Otherwise, you can tick off a lot of the classic British comedies- "Blackadder", "Monty Python", "The Young Ones", "The Office", "Phoenix Nights" and things of that ilk.

d) I listen to all kinds of genres, especially chart stuff, although with a gun to my head I'd probably pick indie rock over anything else. I grew up with Britpop and enjoy that kind of mainstream-enough guitar sound. But at the same time, I went to see Eminem and Wembley, and am perfectly happy with cheese, trance, rap... there's a time and a place for everything.

e) Pancakes are not just for Pancake Day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectual Stimulation.
Humour. Why live, if you can't laugh?
My family.
Crownfield Nougat Pillows. Seriously, those things are heaven in a box.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about some really, really random things. It doesn't take much to set me off on an odd train of thought, especially if I'm chatting with someone willing to indulge me. Sometimes this can be deep, wise and insightful, while other times even I know I'm just talking absolute rubbish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm at the point where I'm starting to accept that clubbing is best left to those with student loans and fake IDs. I do like big nights out, and I still look forward to the big ones when me and my mates head to away games, but I'm just as happy now with a night of pub, pool and karaoke.

Oh, the karaoke. Proof that not being able to do something will never stop me from doing it over and over again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I probably think you're way out of my league.
You should message me if
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If any of this has piqued your curiosity, drop me a line. Despite having a job based around speaking to strangers all day, I can be pretty shy when it comes to breaking the ice- chances are I'd love to talk to you, but can't think of a way to say that first awkward hello.