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40 M San Antonio, TX

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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What can I say about myself for you? Well... to start with, I might be one of the few guys on here that are going to be as honest as I am about to be with you...

1. I am here for social interaction and to explore the open sexual relationship that my girlfriend and I share together. We have enjoyed what it is like for her to have another male partner and now we want to know what its like for me to have another female partner.
2. I am attracted to all body types and ages... Just because you are not a 21 year old model with a lifetime contract for work doesn't mean you aren't beautiful too.
3. I am very submissive... I get the most pleasure out of making you feel good.
What I’m doing with my life
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... umm... just trying to survive. enjoying life with my beautiful girlfriend and loving the idea of what it will feel like to be wanted by more than one woman... if I can find someone else who can share like Lisa can!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making other people feel good. It gives me a great deal of happiness to see someone else happy because of something I've done to... or for them.

You could almost say that I am co-dependant but that word has such a negative meaning in the psychology world that I don't like using it. I can enjoy your happiness thru a strong sense of empathy but I don't need it for validation of my own life or feelings.

Instead of such negative medical terms, I like to think of my personality as one that is guided by the "pay it forward" philosophy
The first things people usually notice about me
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Once I tell them how old I am... most people comment on how young I look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books - Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card, The Elric Saga by Michael Moorcock, Gerald's Game by Stephen King, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Roquelaure

Favorite Movies - Any and all of the "Superhero" movies that were made from comic books (again my nerdiness comes out)

Favorite Shows - Burn Notice, Wharehouse 13, Fringe, and The Big Bang Theory

Favorite Music - I started out liking metal and rock like the classic Rush, ZZ Top, and Pink Floyd... then I graduated to Linkin Park, Puscifer, Korn, Nine Inch Nails, Tool, and their genre (2 points if you know which two of those are the same band members with just different names) and now... mmm... dubstep or anything that has a reallly good beat without too many words since I rarely listen to the words anyways, I prefer to "feel" my music. I listen to a lot of Pandora on my phone and it tends to be on something dubstep or related recently...

Favorite Food - pretty open to all kinds of food and have yet to really find any that I "hate"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming that food, water, health, and shelter are a given... Then the top six things I'd want in my life are:

-A loving partner who wants to share my hopes and dreams with me
-Access to nature that is not polluted by city lights or noises
-Some really good city noise when I am in the mood for it (i.e. -music... preferably techno... specifically dubstep stuff has my ear recently)
-My laptop w/ an internet connection (is that two items?)
-My dog(s)... One shall forever remain in my heart and on my chest *see pictures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, the universe, and everything... to which I think the answer is 42
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home on my laptop playing Minecraft or surfing the net and reading up on web development...

but I would prefer to be staying up late with you playing some board games in our living room, sipping some wine, and flirting with each other endlessly until our passion makes us stop caring who wins or loses... or one of us loses the bet and must now pay up... *wink... *wink...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My gf is ready and willing to share me with the right woman.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You share some or all of my interests or you are at least willing to learn about some of them so we can enjoy some time together...
You should message me if you have some interests that you think would complement mine and you want to share them and you are an open minded kind of gal that can enjoy a sleeping bag and a sky full of stars and galaxies unbroken by city lights one weekend then can enjoy sleeping in, helping me prepare a feast for our friends and then hosting a movie marathon where we watch and entire group of films in a row on the next weekend.
You should message me if you like the idea of learning how to play disc golf or if you think you can "school" me on a pool table.
You should message me if you've read 50 shades of grey and want to know how many of those shades are actually possible and enjoyable.