42 San Antonio, TX
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My self-summary
I am exploring an open relationship with my girlfriend and I am here looking for friends and people to do things with... We prefer to find people that we can "connect" with and keep as friends as well as lovers.

Just because I am in an open relationship, that doesn't make me a rude perv. If I like you I will probably visit your profile, click the like button and that's about it. If you are interested... make the first move cuz I don't wanna be "that guy"... If you think you wanna try something different, give us a try, take a leap of faith and send the first email.

Hey, women's lib applies to dating too. If women can do a man's job, then maybe she can make the first move too? (I am not really a sexist jerk, I just heard that once and thought it was funny as hell)
What I’m doing with my life
Just trying to survive from one day to the next.

I am a carpenter and handy man with experience doing all sorts of remodeling and new construction work. I love construction and the feeling I get when a project is done and we take a step back to see how I made someone else's life better.
I’m really good at
Making other people feel good. It gives me a great deal of happiness to see someone else happy because of something I've done to... or for them.

I've been told by two professional licensed massage therapists that I have a natural gift and an intuition for massage that would make me an amazing therapist. I've been thinking about going to school for it a lot recently... You wanna give me a new body to practice on? I can touch you in ways you never imagined. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
Once I tell them how old I am... most people comment on how young I look... Wait till you meet me in person, you'll see.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books -
The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Roquelaure
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton

Favorite Movies - Almost anything with special effects or a big budget especially nerdy comic character movie adaptations like Batman and The Avengers

Favorite Shows - Currently watching The Arrow

Favorite Music - I started out liking metal and rock like the classic Rush, ZZ Top, and Pink Floyd... then I graduated to Linkin Park, Puscifer, Korn, Nine Inch Nails, Tool, and their genre (2 points if you know which two of those are the same band members with just different names) and now... mmm... dubstep or anything that has a really good beat without too many words since I rarely listen to the words anyways, I prefer to "feel" my music. I listen to a lot of Pandora on my phone and it tends to be on something dubstep or related recently... My current favorite Pandora station is based off the band "Glass Animals"

Favorite Food - pretty open to all kinds of food and have yet to really find any that I "hate"
The six things I could never do without
Assuming that food, water, health, and shelter are a given... Then the top six things I'd want in my life are:

-My loving partner who wants to share my hopes and dreams with me
-Access to nature that is not polluted by city lights or noises
-Some really good city noise when I am in the mood for it (i.e. -music... preferably techno... specifically dubstep stuff has my ear recently)
-My laptop w/ an internet connection (is that two items?)
-My dog(s)... One shall forever remain in my heart and on my chest *see pictures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, the universe, and everything... to which I think the answer is 42
On a typical Friday night I am
Not much... Mostly a homebody who would rather chill at home with some good company a bit of smoke and some nice music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a minor seizure disorder. They happen very rarely(maybe once or twice a year) but when they do, it's grand mal and usually puts me on my butt for a day or two. It's like doing 500 pushups, situps and squats all at the same time and then waking up to those sore muscles without even knowing what happened.
You should message me if
You've read "50 Shades of Grey" or "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty" and are curious about how real that world can be.


If you've read the Ethical Slut and want to discuss te pros and cons of the wisdom in the book.


You like the idea of being "the other woman" without the hassle of "sneaking" around