Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am exploring an open relationship with my girlfriend and I am
here looking for friends and people to do things with... We prefer
to find people that we can "connect" with and keep as friends as
well as lovers.
Just because I am in an open relationship, that doesn't make me a
rude perv. If I like you I will probably visit your profile, click
the like button and that's about it. If you are interested... make
the first move cuz I don't wanna be "that guy"... If you think you
wanna try something different, give us a try, take a leap of faith
and send the first email.
Hey, women's lib applies to dating too. If women can do a man's
job, then maybe she can make the first move too? (I am not really a
sexist jerk, I just heard that once and thought it was funny as
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just trying to survive from one day to the next.
I am a carpenter and handy man with experience doing all sorts of
remodeling and new construction work. I love construction and the
feeling I get when a project is done and we take a step back to see
how I made someone else's life better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making other people feel good. It gives me a great deal of
happiness to see someone else happy because of something I've done
to... or for them.
I've been told by two professional licensed massage therapists that
I have a natural gift and an intuition for massage that would make
me an amazing therapist. I've been thinking about going to school
for it a lot recently... You wanna give me a new body to practice
on? I can touch you in ways you never imagined. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Once I tell them how old I am... most people comment on how young I
look... Wait till you meet me in person, you'll see.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books -
The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Roquelaure
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton
Favorite Movies - Almost anything with special effects or a big
budget especially nerdy comic character movie adaptations like
Batman and The Avengers
Favorite Shows - Currently watching The Arrow
Favorite Music - I started out liking metal and rock like the
classic Rush, ZZ Top, and Pink Floyd... then I graduated to Linkin
Park, Puscifer, Korn, Nine Inch Nails, Tool, and their genre (2
points if you know which two of those are the same band members
with just different names) and now... mmm... dubstep or anything
that has a really good beat without too many words since I rarely
listen to the words anyways, I prefer to "feel" my music. I listen
to a lot of Pandora on my phone and it tends to be on something
dubstep or related recently... My current favorite Pandora station
is based off the band "Glass Animals"
Favorite Food - pretty open to all kinds of food and have yet to
really find any that I "hate"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming that food, water, health, and shelter are a given... Then
the top six things I'd want in my life are:
-My loving partner who wants to share my hopes and dreams with
-Access to nature that is not polluted by city lights or
-Some really good city noise when I am in the mood for it (i.e.
-music... preferably techno... specifically dubstep stuff has my
-My laptop w/ an internet connection (is that two items?)
-My dog(s)... One shall forever remain in my heart and on my chest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, the universe, and everything... to which I think the answer
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not much... Mostly a homebody who would rather chill at home with
some good company a bit of smoke and some nice music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a minor seizure disorder. They happen very rarely(maybe once
or twice a year) but when they do, it's grand mal and usually puts
me on my butt for a day or two. It's like doing 500 pushups, situps
and squats all at the same time and then waking up to those sore
muscles without even knowing what happened.
You should message me if
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You've read "50 Shades of Grey" or "The Claiming of Sleeping
Beauty" and are curious about how real that world can be.
If you've read the Ethical Slut and want to discuss te pros and
cons of the wisdom in the book.
You like the idea of being "the other woman" without the hassle of
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