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32 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 29
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an author trying to carve out a niche for myself writing funny, dark and accessible history books about unusual subjects. My first book - on the history of Father Christmas - was published last year and I'm currently trying to sell a proposal based on the weird folktales behind Disney films.

I'm not quite at a point where I can give up the day job and I quite like the day job anyway! I work as a Case Officer for a large charity, meeting people in need and seeing if we can give them grants.

In my spare time I sing in a band but fear, now I'm in my 30s, I've passed the age where it looks enigmatic and cool and now it just seems sad and desperate...

I also like cooking, pubs and conversation, hanging out with friends and have recently really got into running and exercise - in fact I may be the only person on the entire of OK Cupid who actually looks slightly better in real life than I do in my profile pictures...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering obscure facts and trivia - I've been a contestant on Pointless, once had a wall I submitted for Only Connect published on the BBC and I'm pretty decent in a pub quiz.

I like to think I'm a decent conversationalist too, though obviously that's a two way process and depends who I'm talking to!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've no idea. I'm worried it might currently be an urgent need for a shave and a haircut... I promise to sort this before I next go on a date!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It really depends on what I'm writing but I do seem to spend far too much time thinking about and researching how popular fairytales and children's characters have origins far, far darker than most people realise...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm allergic to avocados. Which is really annoying because, whilst I'd never be so impolite to actually say it out loud, I secretly think the majority of food allergies and intolerances are basically middle-class people being a bit melodramatic. The fact I've got an allergy myself doesn't so much convince me I'm wrong on this so much as to force me to confront the fact that, despite my protestations to the contrary, I'm actually middle-class...
You should message me if
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Any reason you want really. But I've recently suddenly got really enthusiastic about trying out sports and physical activities after years of being a bit of a couch potato. So if you fancy trying out some new activity or other, and want someone to go along with you so we can both be equally rubbish together, then that's DEFINITELY a good reason to get in touch.

Otherwise perhaps if you want someone to go to restaurants with, someone to go running with or someone to go for brunch with. At the moment I keep doing the latter with my flatmate and I think the staff of our local cafe are starting to assume me and him are a couple...