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lean_mean

29 / M / straight / Single

Marietta, Georgia

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

I've been reading a few self summaries and the conclusion I've come to is that woman tend to be much better at expressing themselves. I can't be 100% sure of this because I have not examined any male summaries. It might just be that they have an easier time expressing themselves than I do of MYSELF. Anyway my self summary reads like this: Darius (that's me), he's a pretty cool guy in his own way

Update: I have read a few male summaries and as it turns out it's just me with the self expression problem, go figure. ;)

What I’m doing with my life

Living it! Everything is being managed very well but nothing exciting is happening. Maybe I should take an art class...

I’m really good at

Every time I answer this question someone goes "Oh, me too" and then they proceed to completely make me look and feel like an idiot. They ask me all these questions on the subject that I don't know how to answer. The sad part is I actually think I'm hot stuff when I tell them what I'm good at. So I guess my answer would be I'm good at not being as good at things as I might think I am. ;)

The first things people usually notice about me

I never know how to answer this question. I mean do people ever really tell you what the first things they noticed about you were? I remember my ex-girlfriend once told me that the first thing she noticed about me when we meet was my look of intensity. She thought it was very sexy and she decided she would be going home with me as soon as she saw me. She had been drinking though (it was a party) and smoking a little gonja as well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Cat's Cradle, Love in the Time of Cholera, Dune, Anything by Charles Bukowski, had a big beatnik thing when I was in high school (Kerouac, Ginsburg, Burroughs, Coruso (Oh I'm a dork alright)) and many many more.

Movies: Bladerunner, The Shinning, Fight Club, Raising Cain, Blues Brothers, Brazil, The Usual Suspects, Barton Fink, Confessions of a Dangerous Mind, Twin Peeks and more

TV: XFiles when it was good, Arrested Development, Seinfeld, Lost (1st 2 Seasons), Six Feet Under, Buffy.

Music: Portishead, Radio Head, NIN, OutKast, Tom Waits, Fiona Apple, John Coltrane, Charles Mingus, Sonny Rollins, Sade, Tori Amos, Eminem, and much much more.

Food: Healthy

The six things I could never do without

Air, water, food, shelter, my penis, the internet ;) I know what you're thinking "Shouldn't he sacrifice one of the previous choices for one of his hands???" The answer is no! My penis and the internet are not codependent needs in any sense they just happen to be two things I don't think I could live without. INDEPENDENTLY OF EACH OTHER!!! No, really!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Myself. Not as much as I used to but still quite a bit of time. Also decorating ideas for my apartment. No, I'm not gay, I just really like to decorate... And Tori Amos.

On a typical Friday night I am

Chillin at home. I have to work Saturdays so I don't like to be out too late the night before. Besides, I don't have any friends ;) ...OK, a few people think I'm being serious here so just joking people.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I really love Nine Inch Nails and Radiohead!!! I mean love love em. And I do sometimes listen to Tori Amos... and Ani Difranco... and Sade and Fiona Apple. I kinda love Fiona Apple too, not her latest so much.

You should message me if

You like red wine. You aren't a pain in the butt to get to go out. You aren't too high maintenance. You don't spend most of your time complaining or whining or convinced you are the authority on whats good or bad or in between.