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27 Washington, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 6
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a little shy, but will open up fairly quickly if you're open to a deep discussion. I'm always seeking to learn more about life and I deeply enjoy listening to the stories people tell about themselves. I like to do a lot of different things, visit museums, go for hikes, art shows, concerts, etc., but I really do prefer going for coffee or a walk when I meet someone new.

Politics, theology and culture are some of my favorite subjects, though I am not looking for someone who necessarily agrees with me on any of them. I am very respectful of other points of view, and appreciate a healthy amount of push back.

I am ambitious in respect to my education and my career, but I want to balance that with a healthy social life as well.

I am looking for someone who is pretty independent, intelligent, and wants a relationship based on respect, affection, and healthy negotiation. I also appreciate a good sense of humor and the wisdom it takes to wield it well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am working in a rural community, and it is awsome.

Challenging myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spinning, knitting, and plotting revolution.
Being compassionate.
Road trips.
Long conversations on deep topics.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My baby face seems to hide a surprisingly dark sense of humor.
And, apparently, I pull off the lace and boots look well. *shrugs*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Overall, I will read, watch, listen to, and eat almost anything, with the caveat that I am a little pickier with the books I read.

Books: Classics, like A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens, other well crafted books. Lots of humorous writing, like David Sedaris' work and the novels of Douglas Adams and ilk. A good deal of historical and other non fiction (the Omnivore's Dilemma and others...), and the Bible (in the Greek though, as is doesn't always say what King James says it does...).

Shows: Anything with a twisted sense of humor, high quality storylines, or is just thought provoking in some way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
News and books.
A notebook and pen (or several of each).
Coffee and tea. And Vietnamese food...
Interesting people to talk to.
Yarn and knitting needles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Writing. And how to kill off that antagonist... Or protagonist...

Incarnation. Transubstantiation. And Consubstantiation. The Trinity (no, seriously, what the heck is that?!?!?).

How the subtleties of language translate into different theologies.

Ways to develop more healthy food culture (among other things). Supporting local farmers, new ways of developing infrastructure, more ecologically friendly housing/building, and some stuff along those lines.

Finding good and/or unusual foods. If I haven't tried it yet, I would like to.

Why wool dries faster than cotton and linen when you get it wet...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a freind's house, getting my butt kicked by a seven year old... Or looking for something tasty to eat in Philly... Or up to something...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a ridiculously large scarf collection. And, now, I know how to make them...
You should message me if
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If you made it to this part.
You have a mind open for discussion of all sorts, a wicked sense of humor, and a little bit of a romantic streak.
Or if you know why knitting is connected to revolutions...
Or if you can start a conversation with something a little more interesting than a lukewarm "heeey."

I do not, generally speaking, send out messages or notice if you rate me, so, write to me. I will usually respond to an email.