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39 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:42pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me, me, me. I am so tired of being such a good listener; now I get to talk about myself. Finally...

Me: Self-employed [social] entrepreneur • love what I do and lucky to make money doing it • traveler/wanderer/seeker • love San Francisco • love to leave San Francisco • pretty funny (way funnier on the 2nd date) • pretty deep • see live music • diving • cooking • liberal • animal advocate • hiking/biking/snow • conversating • doing stuff • doing nothin' • listening intently about your day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-employed tech consultant (private, corporate, academic). Lecturer at a few of the local universities; started a nonprofit that teaches older adults the wonders of all things tech; do web and graphic design and fix sick computers - but mostly preventing rogue Nigerians from corrupting my father's bank account.

I am a big traveler (just finished a trip to Indonesia & Japan this summer - #47) and would love a partner who loves to travel as much as I do; day trips, international or otherwise.

Although from NY, SF is my home, and although raised Jewish, don't practice and tend to lean toward universal nothing/everything-ness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
juggling, brewing beer (although I like vodka and Scotch best), Scottish accent, really bad/good puns, talking to animals, fixing and teaching tech, most yoga poses

not fist bumping you.
telling you you're right.

absolutely nothing else.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am not Tom Selleck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/Authors::Tom Robbins, Vonnegut, Nick hornby, Gary Shtynegart, The Lord, Middlesex, 100 years of solitude, kiterunner, dave eggers, fountainhead, henry miller. Currently reading two books about mindfulness (the irony is not lost on me).

Music::Rock and/or Roll, black keys, white stripes, tame Impala, foxygen, cage the elephant, heartless bastards, modest mouse, Zeppelin, clap your hands, LCD soundsystem, T Rex, morcheeba, Portishead, massive attack.

Movies::Wes Anderson, Todd Solondz, Coen Bros, PT Anderson, zucker brothers, etc. Love a good documentary.

TV::don't have cable but Netflix and the power of creative tech allows for watching of the usual suspects: breaking bad, Fargo, true detective Archer, jeopardy, walking dead, GOT, Masters of Sex, family guy, the yule log, 700 Club, Maude reruns.

Food and drink:: Healthy and conscious eater, but still a foodie (god I hate that word) and animal free. Love scotch, sake, make beer, drink coffee recreationally.

I have a Vitamix, make my own almond milk, granola and I pickle (I'm kind of a hippie who has nice things and bathes regularly).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Somehow this question eludes me as I hope "never to do without" anything and hope to be able to adapt when the Zombie Apocalypse goes down. But I understand the question is to get to know where one's impulses lie.

So here are some responses that may or may not be true:

my bible
extra bullets
my methadone
money. lots and lots of it.
my ability to count to six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Will my car fit in that spot?
What if Jimi Hendrix were still alive today?
Unicorns and kittens
My father's role in the Nigerian economy
Less and less as possible

How to work more
How to work less
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Darning my socks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate travel, dogs and Breaking Bad.

(Just joshin', these are things I love, in fact!)
You should message me if
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You're an easy-on-the-eyes, easygoing, sweet, sensitive, edgy, soulful, positive, humble, impassioned, liberal, funny, sometimes crude woman who can laugh at my jokes, make me laugh and make me think.

My profile was once accused of being too "comical" to want anything serious, so want to make it clear (in the most un-funny terms), yes, looking for the real deal. [laugh track]