As far as dates go, I would much rather grab my telescope and go star gazing, or do something creative than blow a bunch of money going to a trendy restaurant. That said, every once in a while a fancy meal is VERY nice... and I am on a bit of a mission to go to every Steven Starr restaurant in Philly... I enjoy cooking, and I make a mean roast, so if you like traditional Sunday dinner, message me and I will make you fat with Pork crackling/ scratchings.
I feel that i should be completely forthcoming and say that I believe that romantic relationships are a team effort. Everything I have seen and experienced supports this hypothesis. I am NOT looking for someone who will be nice to me and take care of me (although if I'm sick, that would be lovely) I am looking for someone who will challenge me intellectually, argue with me if it is warranted, support me when life's challenges get overwhelming, be my partner in crime/ life/ eating Ben & Jerry's in bed while watching movies, and let me do the same for them. A partnership... with lovely lusty benefits. That said, I do not do relationship drama... just as a matter of course. I will not stir things up for the sake of creating drama, and I would appreciate the same courtesy. And I love to cuddle. Just saying.