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22 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:40pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Warning: Cheesy words ahead

Seeking partner(s) in crime / someone with whom to look to windward. For life is often a storm, and if as the winds buffet us, we have someone to hold onto, be it for a single squall or many, we weather the tempest better for it. To be and have a port in the storm.

Cheesy Words End Here

Sometimes, words just don't cut it, so make pictures instead.

I'm a street photographer mostly. I find that the world we live in is variously, savagely beautiful.

Sort of dovetailed with the last bit is that I do my best to give a shit about the world. Respecting other people's rights of personhood is pretty groovy thing. (To put that another way I don't call myself a feminist, even though I more or less agree with feminism, because you shouldn't need an "-ism" to treat people properly) But if you just NEED to categorize me as some sort of "-ist" call me a Humanist.

I'm an unrepentant geek and gamer who doesn't have the time to play video games anymore.

Music is a big deal for me, and it is the bane of my existence that I can't make it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just graduated with my BFA from NYU in photography. Now to make it pay!
I also tweet sarcastically on occasion @leeboyjenkins

I've also been doing this blog where I wax sarcastic about being a cripple. that's

I spend a lot of time in coffeeshops, because that's where the best conversation seems to be.

It's a life goal to visit the world's major cities. So far I've got London, Amsterdam, Prague, Dublin, and Barcelona, as well as New Orleans (I have good stories, you should go there, you will too)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the lesser known interesting, cool and or beautiful things in the world, if I'm lucky, all three at once. Then I try to share them with people.

Also helping people use their technology.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way I walk (more about that later)

I get a lot of positive comments on my hair, and I'm told I smile a lot. I'm alright with that.

The fact that sometimes when I'm talking about something that interests me, information about it might come tumbling out of my head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Freakanomics, Transmetropolitan, Harry Potter, Ian M. Banks, Fight Club, Running With Scissors, CrimethInc., Ender's Game, Hunter S. Thompson, Howl, Y: The Last Man, Vonnegut, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, William Gibson, Neal Stephenson, DMZ

The Low Anthem, Silversun Pickups, Jethro Tull, State Radio, Dispatch, Bedouin Soundclash, VNV Nation, Billy Bragg, Flogging Molly, Enter The Haggis, The Bad Plus, Mumford and Sons, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros, Radical Face, Mike Doughty, The Mountain Goats, Posessed By Paul James, The Tallest Man on Earth, The Mowglis, Trampled By Turtles, Tom Waits, Willy Tea Taylor, Anais Mitchell,

Dexter, Star Trek, Stargate, MythBusters, Inception, Juno, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, 28 Days Later, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Futurama, Wes Anderson, Trainspotting, Freakangels, On The Road

Sixpoint Brownstone Ale, Woodchuck Hard Cider, Laphroig 10 Year Old Single Malt Scotch

Steak, Indian, Thai, any and all green veggies.

All the foods that go with the beers, and all the restaurants that serve the beers and the foods together. If you like pub grub, get at me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A camera, coffee, nice craft beer, all of the other assorted goofy apparatus of photography. My Leatherman and flashlight which I keep strapped to my belt at all times. Gaffer tape.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not things are ethical. Whether or not the things I've done and do are ethical.

Also, food. And coffee, and what things would look like as pictures. And bokeh.

And how all sorts of things, feminism, LGBTQ rights and so on, are really (at least to my mind) logical components of a generally humanist world view. And that if people could just remember that other people are just that, people, that we would have a much better time in this world.

And also kink, and how it (counterintuitively) doesn't contradict any of the above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm a firm believer in the maxim that "Bad ideas make for great stories" (As long as you don't end up dead or maimed) So various kooky misadventures that I get dragged into against my better judgement.

Or having people over for a movie and a few beers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have mild cerebral palsy and walk with a cane for stability. I don't need it to walk, but it has been shown to decrease my frequency of close encounters of the pavement kind.

I'm into the dominant side of kink.
You should message me if
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Upon reading the above nonsense, you have decided that you want to.

If you are interested in getting together in person

Also a lot of people have something posted to the effect of "if you aren't a serial killer." Well, to put your mind at ease, I actually couldn't be violent even if I wanted to. I'm handicapped, you could knock me down and run away.

I am however, known to murder the occasional bowl of Cheerios.