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leemm71

41 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I was born & raised here in Chicago...the North side, so I'm a Cubbie Fan. I love the Blackhawks too. I'm pretty witty, have a sarcastic sense of humor, a bit stubborn especially if I can back up what I think. I have a tendency to try & make sure my friends & family are happy. I'm very loyal. I'm pretty honest. I will tell you the truth even if it hurts. The pain isn't my intent but I'd rather not lie. I have a large extended family that I'm close too.

I am caring, a lover of laughing, and a hugger
What I’m doing with my life
I have two degrees: Nursing & Psychology. I'm an R.N. What I'm doing is pretty much what everyone is doing: trying to be a productive individual. Trying to leave this world a little better.

I'm in the process of studying to become Board Certified. Also, trying to determine which Masters program to go for.
I’m really good at
being serious & having fun. I like really good conversations full of witty banter. I love long conversations where we can talk about anything. I enjoy laughing, you know, the kind that makes your stomach ache & your cheeks sore. If tears are shed, even better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love movies--comedies & sci-fi...Perks of Being a Wallflower, Hunger Games, Arthur, Get Him to the Greek, The Hangover, Death at a Funeral (both versions), Star Trek, Transformers, the old Battlestar Galatica, Matrix, Dodgeball, Noises Off, Rush Hour, I am David, etc.

I like basically feel good music--some of my favorites are Adele, Pink, She & Him, U2, No Doubt, DMB, Black eyed Peas, Nirvana & Foo Fighters. I really like alternative, 80 & 90's. I've been a sucker for the songs from the Ipod commercials.

Favortie writers: Jacqueline Carey, Matthew Reilly & James Rollins, Anne Rice, Katherine Nevile, Umberto Eco, Wilbur Smith...the list could go on. And yes, I do like the Harry Potter Hunger Games, I am Number Four, & Twilight series...they're a guilty pleasure to read.

My favorite TV shows that I usually watch are: True Blood, Bones, The Big Bang Theory, The New Normal, New Girl, the CSI's, Criminal Minds, Modern Family, Friends, Coupling, 30 Rock, Chuck, The Office, The Dollhouse, Lost, & Heroes

I love cooking & baking. I like to try new things out. Love Sushi, Mexican & Polish.
The six things I could never do without
my family & friends.
my dog.
my laptop.
food
being able to laugh or smile
enjoying the feel of the sun on my face and a gentle breeze that lifts my hair up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about what do I need to do today?

Have I done something worthwhile today? Have I helped someone who needs help? Did I have fun today?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to ask me this in person. ;)

So someone asked me, "Why are you still single?"

I haven't met the right person. I'm a good person--loving, loyal, trustworthy, passionate. You know qualities that most people look for. Qualities that I'm looking for. I'm dedicated if I fall in love & commit to being in a relationship. I expect the same. I've never cheated on anyone. I don't like playing games. I want to be loved with the same passion that I give love. So...I haven't found that yet. I'm looking for the qualities that make the man a good person. Someone that I'm attracted to & is attracted to me. You know that balance that just clicks into place.

Does this sound scary? It should. Finding the right person is a scary, uncharted adventure. It needs to be met head on. ;)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like intelligent conversations, love to laugh & think we'd click.

NOTE: If you don't have a picture or didn't fill out your profile...then, I will not respond. Hey, I took the time to fill out mine.

-If you don't have a dream, or still angry or hung up over your ex, or can't carry on a conversation...then, please don't write me.

-PLEASE don't write me if you are a Scammer. You know who you are. I'm not interested in Scammers. Thanks.