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65 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 53–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:27pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm very bright, funny, youthful, quite flexible and deeply curious. My women friends tell me I'm warm, sexy and I know I'm affectionate, tender and sweet. I look and feel a lot younger than I am. No one ever guesses my correct age and they are usually off by 10 years. Not sure what happened, but I'll take it. I'm an information sponge and most of it sticks. I have good instincts, use them and tend to look below the surface. I'm articulate, as well as a good and careful listener. My interests are broad. There's not much out there that I would resist knowing more about. My Myers-Briggs Type is INFP, as shown across several different tests and the descriptions I read of this type ring true as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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Long time licensed general contractor with a focus in high end residential remodel. In 2012 I bought a bungalow near Piedmont Avenue in North Oakland from the family that had it built in 1907. It is loaded with character and the echoes of a hundred years of family gatherings. I have other projects rolling as well. I love what I do and have no intention to retire any time soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have broad talents, but more than anything, I make things and I restore things. I also have taste and an eye, developed over a long time participating in design decisions in my work and elsewhere. If there's an earthquake, I'm definitely the guy you want living next door. And maybe most importantly, I've also been told more than once that I'm a great kisser.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big, smart, handsome, witty guy. I'm pretty informal and most of the time you will see me dressed exactly like you see in the photos. I don't own a suit and it is my goal to keep it that way for the rest of my life. (Yes, I own slacks and jackets and probably even a white dress shirt.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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New Yorker
Scientific American
Tom Waits
Charles Bukowski
Rachel Maddow
John McPhee
Cohen Brothers
Julia Morgan
Mark Bulwinkle
John McPhee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Close friends, my pup, laughter, camping gear, Death Valley and the Eastern Sierra, various Macs and digital tools.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next, both in my life and the world I live in - work, love, surprises.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking it easy at home or dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The fact that texting has completely destroyed my touch typing ability. Makes me look like English is my second or third language when I type on a 'puter now and on a phone it's worse!.
You should message me if
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You want to laugh, want to explore it all with someone who has taken a bit of a crooked path and you want to see if there might be a spark between us. I like and I'm comfortable with strong women. It is also imperative that you are still growing, sweet, gentle and affectionate as well. If you like Las Vegas, you should probably keep looking. I think that place is a complete waste of perfectly good desert.