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38 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–62
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20, 2007
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i am cute, smart and motivated. i like to read, fiction mostly, and i read the new york times every day (except saturday and sometimes sunday). i read the front page, skim the metro section, the entire business section and the arts section in that order. i just bought my own apartment in downtown brooklyn and i love the location because i am literally just over the manhattan and brooklyn bridges, just blocks from dumbo, a short walk from montague street and a walkable distance from all the good shops and restaurants on smith st and court st. i love going to the movies. i will see anything except war movies b/c they make me ill. i usually like independent movies best. popcorn is a must. i try not to watch too much television, but am very addicted to lost. DVR has changed my life, b/c i'm never home but now i don't miss any shows or movies that i'd like to watch if i were. i like to go out and dance every once and a while. i was a DJ/scenester when i was growing up and i love drum & bass, house music, electro, dark techno, hip hop, etc. etc. i like to travel and my favorite city so far is amsterdam (not for the reasons you might think!). corsica is probably the most beautiful place i've ever seen and the best food i've ever had was in sardinia, italy. i like to be fashionable and tend to shop a lot. i've given up trying to fight it. i am pretty active and like hiking and yoga best. i'm a vegetarian but i eat fish (especially spicy tuna rolls!). i'm very easy going in my personal life and one tough cookie in my professional one!

I am [cute], [blond], and [intelligent]
What I’m doing with my life
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i am a lawyer. i mostly do white collar criminal defense and i find accounting and other corporate frauds fascinating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
anything i put my mind too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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sadly, my blond hair and shapely figure. given my profession, its kind of annoying. people also tend to think i'm much younger than i am. also annoying professionally.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(A) BOOKS: random family by leblanc. bringing down the house by mezrich. middlesex by eugenis. house of sand & fog by dubus. the lovely bones by sebold. franny & zooey by salinger. veronica by mary gaitskill, the devil in the white city by erik larson, the corrections by jonathan franzien, and who can't help but like party monster by james st. james?

(B) MOVIES: Donnie Darko, Napolean Dynomite, Garden State, 24 Hour Party People, Star Wars, Empire Strikes Bank, Return of the Jedi (except the part with the stupid Ewoks and their planet that should have been blown up), Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Red Shoes, Goodfellas, Batman Begins, Party Girl, Gone With the Wind, Boogie Nights, Pretty in Pink, Sixteen Candles, St. Elmo's Fire, Grease, Traffic, House of Wax (seriously), Rosemary's Baby, Old School, Almost Famous, Heat, The Neverending Story, Finding Neverland, Basquiat, The Krays, My Summer of Love, 40 Year Old Virgin, Wedding Crashers, The People vs. Larry Flynt, the Aviator, Little Miss Sunshine, Drop Dead Fred, Shopgirl, the Illusionist

(C) MUSIC: Killers, Interpol, Get Up Kids, Bright Eyes, Postal Service, Shins, Death Cab for Cutie, Operation Ivy;

M.F. Doom, J Zone, Prince Paul, Cormega, Raekwon, Nas, Biggie, Mobb Deep, 50 Cent, Game, Tribe Called Quest, Common, Kanye West, OLD Wu Tang, De La Soul, Goodie Mob, Jay-Z, Brooklyn Academy;

Old School Drum&Bass (Jonny L, Omni Trio, LTJ Bukem, Peshay, Blame, DJ Rap, Aphrodite, anything on Moving Shadow, anything associated with DJ Hype, etc. etc.), electro, breaks, Chemical Brothers, Fischerspooner, Neil Landstrumm, Elektroids, Hot Chip. And the best song ever is "I WANT YOU" by Jonny L;

Dead Kennedys (and involving Jello Biafra generally), Dead Milkmen, Cure, Depeche Mode, Ministry, Skinny Puppy, Smiths, Morrissey, Janes Addiction, Joy Division, New Order, Violent Femmes, Doors, Desmond Dekker (I'm indifferent about the Aces), Dave Matthews when its sunny out, Frank Sinatra and lots of it! Also, who can't help but like reggaeton every once in a while?

(D) FOODS: vegetarian soul fried "chicken", spicy tuna rolls, green tea ice cream, edamame, kraft macaroni & cheese with broccoli
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) a soft fluffy comforter

(2) my ipod

(3) books and the NY Times

(4) the subway

(5) moisturizer

(6) the calming scent of vanilla
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why i am here. society. human interactions. music. literature. politics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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nada! ask me in person.
You should message me if
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you are intellectual, gainfully employed and have no serious addictions or mental illnesses.