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leighjcm

31 / F / gay / Single

New York, New York

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5' 0" (1.52m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
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Sometimes
Drugs
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Pisces and it matters a lot
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English

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I am smart, funny, and spunky.

My Self-Summary

hey all! i am interested in someone who loves theatre, music, movies. i am super into gay cinema and plays, and one day i would love to run my own theatre company. i also have been writing a lot lately, and love when one of my friends will turn my poetry into a song! :-)
i am looking for sincere people who want a real connection, and not just to hook up.
i love living in NYC, but have also spent time living in London and San Fran. give me some adventure!

i love to be silly, it's the best to just have someone to crack up with. i tend to be too analytical and serious sometimes, so i need someone who will be a positive force. there are too many unhappy, depressed, and negative people in this world...i definitely try my hardest not to be one of those people.

i am pretty decisive and opinionated, i like to think it's a good thing. i like to hear what people feel passionate about. i have a really infectious laugh, so i've been told, and i usually laugh at the most inopportune times.
i have some pretty exceptional friends.

mostly what i am looking for in a partner is someone who understands me, without me having to always tell them how i feel. i am constantly amazed by how great it feels to have someone know what i need instinctively. and yes i do realize that takes time, but with the right person i think it will come pretty quickly.

i am a strange sort of person, haha. i like to sit around reading, listening to music, watching some random lesbian movie...but i also like to take trips to places i've never been. my best friend and i love to plan road trips, and exploring new cities is one of the best feelings ever! i picked up and moved to London without knowing anyone. :-)

also, i am not much of a crier, but let me know you, if an animal dies in a movie or tv show i will be a wreck!
just letting you know in advance...

What I’m doing with my life

currently working in ticket sales and customer service for broadway shows.

I’m really good at

-singing! i love it more than most things!
-knowing the words to obscure Air Supply songs
-analyzing anything and everything
-planning events and parties
-being slightly OCD ;-)

The first things people usually notice about me

i have really blue eyes, and i look way younger than i actually am. it lets me get away with lots of things. it pays to sometimes be underestimated. hehehe

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books are usually plays- stop kiss, angels in america, and i am my own wife

movies- cabaret, hedwig, shortbus, kissing jessica stein, anniversary party

music- sarah mclachlan, brandi carlisle, alanis morrissette, jack johnson, jason mraz

food- chocolate!

The six things I could never do without

Ipod
email
my voice
chocolate
digital camera
love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what i want to do with my life
where i want to live next
how to save up money :-)

On a typical Friday night I am

having dinner with friends
or home unwinding
maybe some tv and music

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i want someone who really understands me

You should message me if

you love the arts
you want a serious relationship
you are funny and thoughtful
you like animals
you like travel and different cultures