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  • Ages 21-32
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5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
My self-summary
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A man of many hats.

I believe people are good, and when they lower their walls, they're all pretty interesting.

I don't believe in following the beaten path or the one imposed by another entity. I ask questions, I think, I challenge, and I change.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fitpro: teach people to believe in themselves and expand their worlds through serious training.
Lecturer: teach people to fitpro.
Lots of writing, reading, and constantly building on knowledge of myself and the world around me.

Current new developments: Real Estate license under construction and my first martial arts experience.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Turning clapping and shouting into something presentable. I've been complimented by strangers on whistling.

Seamlessly fitting hours of audiobook and podcast-listening into a single day.

Making myself uncomfortable in the spirit of growth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think a lot (a LOT).
Depending on the time and season, I might also be hiding my skin from the death rays of the sun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MUSIC: Super open-minded - I just love MUSIC in general!

Progressive metal (Dream Theater, Symphony X), prog-rock (Spock's Beard, Rush), 80s 90s and 00s vocal pop (Kelly Clarkson, Christina Aguilera), praise/gospel, pop punk (Blink 182, Green Day, Sum41, Avril) lil bit o' country (Chris Cagle, Jason Aldean, Craig Morgan), 80s/90s hip hop (Dre, Diddy, Jurassic 5), the classics (Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson, et al) and tons of stuff in between.

I may or may not also love singing Disney songs.

MOVIE: Forrest Gump is my favorite emotional rollercoaster.
Star Wars is awesome.
Last movie I enjoyed in theaters was Straight Outta Compton.
But honestly, movies don't do much for me normally. I also never think funny movies are funny. I'd rather see live comedians. Maybe I'm broken.

TV: I'm a total TV recluse, but ditching my TV years ago was one of the best things I've ever done. Like, in life.

[but I still love stupid vine compilations on youtube.]

BOOKS: Best book I read this year was The Brain That Changes Itself.
Currently reading: Stumbling on Happiness.

FOOD: I very much like traditional Mexican, Indian, and Asian cuisines. Despite a great appreciation for fine flavors, I'm pretty simple (read: boring) on a day-to-day basis and easily subsist on the same meals on repeat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Musical instruments. Pie-annas, geetors, durms, wissles, claire-nets, whatevers. Anything to express the universal language of music.

A healthy, strong body. "At least you've got your health," they say. How could you disagree? The quality of my days is greater because I'm able to ride my bike wherever for however long, I'm not tired, I'm not afraid to try new activities because I fear my body won't be able to keep up.

A good chef's knife. Have you ever tried to cut fruits, meats, and veggies with a dull knife? A hammer works better.

The internet and its infinite wisdom. As privileged Americans, we have no excuse not to know everything there is to know about whatever we like. The resources are so vast and limitless. I'm excited to see where education goes in the next fifty years when our generation has taken over.

Sunny skies (sorry Seattle and London). They're just nicer.

That feeling of flying / falling / going really fast with wind in your face. Remember what it means to be alive. And a little bit scared. Like every day when you were a kid. That's when you developed the most and had the most fun. There's wisdom in that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physical preparation, different lifestyles and cultures, novel experiences, the brain.

Why Philly doesn't cover all the trolley tracks I've NEVER seen used for anything other than protecting the streets from uninjured cyclists.

People who truly just don't want to ever have kids. By definition, they don't visualize themselves as old 60-80+ year olds called "grampa" or "gramma". That's strange to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes social play, sometimes intellectual indulgence; whatever brings me the most stimulation.
You should message me if
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You're an intriguing individual who loves to think and partake in enlightening exchanges of ideas.

You're fun and looking to experience some more of what life has to offer. (Let's go to f'n SkyZone.)

Even if you're just down to make new friends.

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