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lemonspongecake Away

38 / M / Straight / Single

Leeds, United Kingdom

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Single, monogamous, independent, bright ( mostly ) single male seeks female equivalent.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a web developer at the working for a local software company and I'm training to be a "pen tester" (*) in my spare time. It's a lot of work but also fun too.

I also like socialising with friends but I'm not into clubs or the whole 'get really drunk' scene. Personally a nice meal and a chat wins over that.

(*) As 99.99% of you won't know what pen testing means it's a very technical IT role where you try to hack into computer networks and systems and report the findings back to a client so that the issues are fixed so that criminals can't get in.
I’m really good at
Coming up with ideas for things to do. Sadly finding people to do them with becomes harder to do at my age as most of my friends are married and have children.
The first things people usually notice about me
If my ages comes up in conversation everyone says I look a lot younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to read IT type books these days but I used to be into Brian Lumley. Recently purchased an e-reader so might get back into fiction.

Movies: Prefer sci-fi, fantasy, action, comedy types. Anything with a twist is good too. Not a fan of the new breed of horror films but the older generation can be good. Not really into remakes either though I'll probably watch them.

TV shows: Town Called Eureka, True Blood, Walking Dead, Spy, Continuum, Family Guy, Simpsons, South Park.

Food: Most apart from seafood. Can't beat a good Sunday roast.
The six things I could never do without
Tomato sauce
Chicken / Beef roast dinners
Lamb Rogan Josh
Walking boots
Crabbies Ginger beer
And of course all the usual stuff, air, money, friends, family etc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wondering if I've forgotten something.
On a typical Friday night I am
I've no set plans. Most of my none work friends live far away so tend to meet up with those for special occasions or organised events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
At age 36 I was asked for ID is Asda when buying a few beers. Bit embarrassing but i guess it's a compliment.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals