Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Not interested in dating anyone with kids already.
Please move along if this is you.
I am a single guy just into his forties who is looking to date, and
possibly fall in love. I am one of those people with a big heart,
an easygoing personality, and can also be funny at times. I know
who I'm looking for. When I find her, I know she will see me and
will also know that whoever she's looking for is standing right in
front of her.
I am easygoing, sweet, and fun-loving
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was a music teacher in my younger days. Then I decided to leave
that for IT. Currently I work for a domain registration/Web hosting
In my spare time, I try to find time to sing with one or two choirs
I usually sing with. When the money allows for it, I also try to
travel while on vacation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music (performing it, writing it and listening to it)
Computer stuff (for those who could use some tech support)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Definitely my smile. If there have ever been any compliments given
about me, that's usually the biggest. After that, probably how
easygoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lord of the Rings
by J.R.R. Tolkien
- The Killer
by Michael Shaara (was made into a 1993 movie that was
by Richard Adams
- 2001: A Space Odyssey
Arthur C. Clarke
by Anthony Burgess
Got His Gun
by Dalton Trumbo
- All Quiet on the
by Erich Maria Remarque
by Reginald Rose
Movies & TV:
- Lawrence of Arabia
- Star Wars
- Paths of Glory
- Dr. Strangelove
- Blade Runner
- The Sing-Off
- Doctor Who (both classic and the reboot)
- Big Bang Theory
- PBS docs
- Mad Men
- ESPN 30 for 30
- Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey
Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Copland, Bernstein
Miles Davis, Duke Ellington, Sonny Rollins, Django
-Rock: a lot of different stuff, but primarily Beatles, Yes, Led
Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Who, Foo Fighters, Nirvana, Dave Matthews
Band, 311, thenewno2.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my computers
- my Blu-Ray player w/ Internet video
- my family
- my car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of different things. I guess I mostly think about the
direction my life is going, but only in the immediate future. I
just think it's more practical to just look a little bit ahead.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either at home, at a movie, or just driving around to wherever the
night takes me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been in a movie. You'll have to get to know me to find out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for someone who will be kind to you; someone who
will put all of their heart and soul into a relationship; someone
who be there for you, and would want you to be there for him;
finally, someone worth spending a long time (possibly your life)
For the initial encounter: I'm not one for the "phone dates". I
only want to be on the phone to set up a face-to-face meet up. I
really believe in meeting someone face-to-face for a simple cup of
coffee for at the most an hour. If things go well, fine. If not, oh
well. At least both parties got to see each other in the flesh. No
one can ever really gauge how things will go over the phone. All
that tells me is that you're not interested, and just want to be
polite. If that's you, just be straight up with me on how you
Just another thing: Even though I really like kids (I have two
nephews whom I love with all my heart), I'd rather not be involved
with anyone who already has them; even if they are nieces and/or
nephews in the middle of any family turmoil. For those who do, I'm
pretty sure you will meet a guy who will be happy to date someone
with kids already. I just think I'm not one of those guys. A) Too
much chance of dealing with extra drama involving the woman and the
kid(s) father (I really don't do well in that kind of environment);
B) would rather not have the relationship take a backseat for kids
who aren't mine (may sound selfish, but I have to be completely
honest); and C) If I ever decided to have kids someday (and at this
point I'm not completely sure I want any, but things could always
change), I want my future wife and I go through our first time
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