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39 M Royersford, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:35am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a single guy about to hit his forties who is looking to date, and possibly fall in love. I am one of those people with a big heart, an easygoing personality, and can also be funny at times. I know who I'm looking for. When I find her, I know she will see me and will also know that whoever she's looking for is standing right in front of her.

I am easygoing, sweet, and fun-loving
What I’m doing with my life
Just moved to my current location recently, and am still getting the lay of the land. Also have made it a point to meet people around here. I am also in the process of switching my culinary and activity lifestyle. I've realized I no longer have the resilience I used to have in my twenties.
I was a music teacher for various schools for a good six years, having received a bachelor degree in music education. Then I decided that it wasn't what I wanted to do the rest of my life (more interested in the 'music' part than the 'teaching' part), so I left the profession. After much consideration, I finally decided to pursue a career in IT. I now work for a website hosting service based in the area.
I’m really good at
Music (performing it, writing it and listening to it)
Computer stuff (for those who could use some tech support)
The first things people usually notice about me
Definitely my smile. If there have ever been any compliments given about me, that's usually the biggest. After that, probably how easygoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

- The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
- The Killer Angels by Michael Shaara (was made into a 1993 movie that was renamed "Gettysburg")
- Watership Down by Richard Adams
- 2001: A Space Odyssey by Arthur C. Clarke
- A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess
- Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbo
- All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque
- Twelve Angry Men by Reginald Rose

Movies & TV:

- Clerks
- Ghandi
- Lawrence of Arabia
- Star Wars
- Paths of Glory
- Dr. Strangelove
- Amadeus
- Blade Runner

- Archer
- The Sing-Off
- Doctor Who (both classic and the reboot)
- Big Bang Theory
- Futurama
- PBS docs
- Mad Men

-Classical: Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Copland, Bernstein
-Jazz: Miles Davis, Duke Ellington, Sonny Rollins, Django Reinhardt
-Rock: a lot of different stuff, but primarily Beatles, Yes, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Who, Foo Fighters, Nirvana, Dave Matthews Band, 311, thenewno2.

In addition to listening to music, I also perform it. I spend some of my spare time performing in two choirs: one is a semi-professional choir in Philadelphia, and the other is a church choir I got involved with as a paid singer initially but have stuck with, since they will put on concerts throughout the season as well as do just liturgical music (for those who are not religious, don't worry; I'm more involved just for the performance aspect than any religious reason; I'm respectful but not too dogmatic about it).
The six things I could never do without
- my computers

- my instruments

- my CDs and stereo

- coffee

- laughter

- my family

- my drive to live life to it's fullest potential
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of different things. I guess I mostly think about the direction my life is going, but only in the immediate future. I just think it's more practical to just look a little bit ahead.
On a typical Friday night I am
either at home, at a movie, or just driving around to wherever the night takes me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been in a movie. You'll have to get to know me to find out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are looking for someone who will be kind to you; someone who will put all of their heart and soul into a relationship; someone who be there for you, and would want you to be there for him; finally, someone worth spending a long time (possibly your life) with.

For the initial encounter: I'm not one for the "phone dates". I only want to be on the phone to set up a face-to-face meet up. I really believe in meeting someone face-to-face for a simple cup of coffee for at the most an hour. If things go well, fine. If not, oh well. At least both parties got to see each other in the flesh. No one can ever really gauge how things will go over the phone. All that tells me is that you're not interested, and just want to be polite. If that's you, just be straight up with me on how you feel.

Just another thing: Even though I really like kids (I have two nephews whom I love with all my heart), I'd rather not be involved with anyone who already has them; even if they are nieces and/or nephews in the middle of any family turmoil. For those who do, I'm pretty sure you will meet a guy who will be happy to date someone with kids already. I just think I'm not one of those guys. A) Too much chance of dealing with extra drama involving the woman and the kid(s) father (I really don't do well in that kind of environment); B) would rather not have the relationship take a backseat for kids who aren't mine (may sound selfish, but I have to be completely honest); and C) If I ever decided to have kids someday (and at this point I'm not completely sure I want any, but things could always change), I want my future wife and I go through our first time together.