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64 Mill Valley, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 57–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:17pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Amicable divorce after2 years separation, took the time to recalibrate, not carrying any negative emotional baggage, and fully focused on creating a honest long term relationship

I am resilient, direct and resolute when necessary, yet eager to warmly embrace friends and the less fortunate. I trace my roots to Spain (Circa 1500), lived in Europe and ultimately settled in beautiful Marin County.

I am blessed with 2 intelligent and caring adult daughters, enjoy "visitation rights” with a cheerful black lab, keep myself fit (cycling, hiking, nature walks and the gym), and lead a healthy life style. Volunteering occupies an important and exciting part of my life, giving me immense satisfaction and a sense of self-worth. My profession provides independence, people interaction, and problem solving/value creation.

You would have my undivided attention and enthusiastic devotion if you possess a cheerful life outlook and down-to-earth disposition, keep yourself fit and conduct healthy life style, feel comfortable with a pair of jeans, bent on exploring Marin natural beauty, and on pursuing the blessings of romantic togetherness. Together we will be dedicated to supporting, protecting and cheering each other, and maintaining our trust and devotion in good and difficult time.

I value strait-talk and common sense, enjoy smart humor, cherish trust, loyalty and accountability, treasure a warm smile and have the propensity for tender hugging and cuddling. For me, chemistry has more to do with character and intellect rather than just great looks. I enjoy thought provoking conversations, watching foreign and old movies, political and legal dramas, documentaries, Saturday night live (sometimes) and Larry David and Woody Allen.

When it comes to using the age criteria while searching for a life partner, I appraise individuals according to their appearance and vitality rather than chronological age, I hope that you might feel the same way, because I am a bit older that my stated age but look and feel much younger.

I am looking forward with enthusiastic anticipation for the prospect of sharing the best part of life with a loved one (you?)

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile posting
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After so many years of being entirely focused on the important and satisfying task of raising my kids and providing for the well being of my family, I have a unique opportunity to rediscover what really makes me happy and content, and I am looking forward with anticipation and excitement to the prospect of falling in love again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative thinking out of the box and finding alternative solutions to seemingly unsolvable problems, working and creating with my hands, being a good loyal friend, speaking up my mind clearly and honestly. Cherish the act of giving (still practicing the art of gratefully receiving)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Welcoming smile and an embracing hug.
Straight and to the point accentuated communication.
Feel at ease meeting with strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Prefer informative books: health, personal growth, science, history, foreign cultures and human behavior. Not big on novels and would rather observe, interact, contemplate and learn from real life experiences. Read: WSJ, NY Times and the New Yorker
Netflix aficionado: documentaries (The Unforeseen), foreign movies (Jean de Florette with Gérard Depardieu), thrillers (The French Connection), classics (the African Queen) and Oldies (Lady for a Day - Frank Capra)
Netflix aficionado: documentaries (The Unforeseen), foreign movies (Jean de Florette with Gérard Depardieu), thrillers (The French Connection), classics (the African Queen) and Oldies (Lady for a Day - Frank Capra)
Classical, opera and Jazz are my only operative radio stations.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Trust, loyalty, accountability, cheerful disposition and good old common sense.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exciting anticipation for the first rendezvous, easy conversation, smile and laughter, the spark, the feeling of togetherness, the courting, falling in love, building the relationship and once again being able to wish in a loved one a good night sleep in the bedroom that we share.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When single: Movie, theater, dinner with friends
In relationship: places and activities that create a feeling of togetherness and intimacy (Dinner at home is by far my favorite) .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No ghosts in my closet, but would keep real private things to the appropriate time and place.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Think that we have commonality of life experience, interests and aspirations, serious about dating, and emotionally ready to be open and engaging.
You live in Marin or within a short drive over the GG bridge.