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53 Emeryville, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:39am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Has cats
English, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me: it can be said that I have hope and am hopeless in the same breath; while in that breath I might be breathless.
I am quixotic and yet I believe in nothing.
**Now that is just plain silly**

I am a living, breathing dichotomy.
**this is true**

I like and yes, even love myself and know myself well. That is really the most important thing.

I am planned obsolescence.

I am chimerical, exacting, and *meep*
**Meep is critical**
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live, I breathe, I sleep, I dream, I type, I imagine, I create, i re-create.
I am doing exactly what it is that I should be doing and this fulfills me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Social functioning, compartmentalization, spelling, (not so good at punctuation), drinking coffee, adapting to change.

I am good at being bad but not bad at being good..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intelligence. My charming wit, my sense of curiosity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movie - everything is illuminated featuring GoGol Bordello and Eugene Hütz, The Ice Storm, Angels & Insects, Donnie Darko, Down by Law or nearly anything by Jim Jarmusch, Juno
I am highly addicted to AHS and if you look like Jessica Lange, hit me up!

book - Living My Life by Emma Goldman, currently reading The Corrections by Jonathan Franzen, cookbooks (I know that's food geek), the Hunger Game Series.

Food - was a former chef, love Pan Asian and have a fondness for Vietnamese & Korean. I love Mediterranean, Italian. Strange for me to say this but I am slightly leaning towards vegan and vegetarian these days.

music - Bjork, Sufjan Stevens, Nouvelle Vague, Martha Wainwright, The Be Good Tanyas, Amon Tobin, The Breeders, The Decemberists, Clap Your Hands and Say, Yeah!, The New Pornographers, Royskopp, WagonChrist, M.I.A. - I could go on and on...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
8. Hương vị tuyệt hảo
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the number 43 (what is 42?)
this isn't happiness
No, you shut up!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to be typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I thought I liked a certain amount of unpredictability but I am learning that that can be tiring.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*No Flakes*

Not interested in sex talk as an opener. That is gauche. I prefer a gentlemanly approach (mens).

Libido strength is a must!

I prefer mail to this ok-chat interface

* not so much into the young 20 yo's sorry*

** if you are offensive, I will block you***
(most of the offensive ones don't even look at the profile)

**** No breaks for poor spellers!

***** If you have no picture, NO, I am not interested in chatting with you. A blank profile is never a turn on for anyone.