One of the problems with this site is that it gives a lot of what we think we want, but not necessarily what we really want. I had the realization a couple weeks ago: the most valuable relationships I've ever had have been ones where there were major areas of difference, the ones that I never would have expected to work well if I thought all that hard about it. So, there's a lot of leeway in the below description. In fact, you might get extra points for not fitting the description 100%.
You (in my imagination): Bold, literary, open, romantic, confident but not arrogant, like bicycling and shows and music, thoughtful, a philosopher (not necessarily in the professional/academic sense), dance in the right situation, willing to make the first move, well-traveled, friendly and inclusive, strong sense of ethics and the importance of doing the right thing, fun, full of feels, probably dress nicely at least some of the time, talker, love NFL football in a completely non-ironic way, want to snuggle the fuck out of me (and even let me be the little spoon some times!), committed to living--and all the pain, fear, excitement, bliss, wonder, ecstasy, strangeness, and beauty that entails--consummately.