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letuschange

44 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Apr 10
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a doer, perhaps to a fault - very project-oriented and hyper, but learning to chill now that I'm finally fairly stable, homewise and jobwise and workwise. Also, extraordinarily (I think) mischievous.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to read and think and relax, yet still keep the mischief and a certain level of doing going. And writing convoluted sentences on dating sites.
I’m really good at
Anything active, mischievous, risky. Not so good at sitting still - sailing is the closest I get. Meditation is fabulous but difficult.
The first things people usually notice about me
Open smile. Next, how misleading it is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Abbie Hoffman, vindaloo, entrails, 1491, new music, Leonard Cohen, punk, any good theater, burgers, anything spicy or weird.
The six things I could never do without
Something to fix.
Something to learn.
At least three projects at once.
Hope for a happy communal life.
Friends.
Kissing.
Sailing.
Lists.
Books.
There. That's six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Projects, lists, etc.
How I'm going to end up with a more full-time community. Or even a commune.
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing friends, clinking glasses with strangers, running around, or working at home and wondering why I'm happy not to be out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh, I'll admit pretty much anything, even if it's not true.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You're over 28 and looking for something real, or any age and looking for something casual. Of course casual can become real, but I'm trying to change my habits....