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letuschange

45 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a doer, perhaps to a fault - very project-oriented and hyper, but learning to chill now that I'm finally fairly stable, homewise and jobwise and workwise. Also, extraordinarily (I think) mischievous.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to read and think and relax, yet still keep the mischief and a certain level of doing going. And writing convoluted sentences on dating sites.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything active, mischievous, risky. Not so good at sitting still - sailing is the closest I get. Meditation is fabulous but difficult.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Open smile. Next, how misleading it is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Abbie Hoffman, vindaloo, entrails, 1491, new music, Leonard Cohen, punk, any good theater, burgers, anything spicy or weird.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to fix.
Something to learn.
At least three projects at once.
Hope for a happy communal life.
Friends.
Kissing.
Meditation.
Sailing.
Lists.
Books.
There. That's six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Projects, lists, etc.
How I'm going to end up with a more full-time community. Or even a commune.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing friends, clinking glasses with strangers, running around, or working at home and wondering why I'm happy not to be out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh, I'll admit pretty much anything, even if it's not true.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your fingers work!