I'd like to think that I am as humble of a person as they come these days here in the twenty-first century. But that statement alone proves that I am not as humble as I'd like to believe. Also, the fact that my self summary is so long might suggest that I'm not as humble as I'd like to think. I just thought I'd point that out first before you read on. I recognize and laugh at life's ironies, both little and big. It seems to me that the world is balanced, but exactly how the world is balanced is constantly changing with each new birth and each new death. More accurately, life's balance changes with each obstacle that it overcomes. I belong to no nation exclusively. I belong to all life. I believe that the key to true happiness is to maintain life's balance. Take only what one needs and share the rest with others who need it. These fundamentals have served me well and I wish only to share my life with great people.
I am deeply in love with the most perfect person I have ever met, and that is Mathew Vinoya. He is my main spouse, but I have been separated from him for a year now (much to my despair).
My big likes are Astrophysics, classic rock, Friday night card games, writing, various forms of athletics (I excel in a variety of sports) and drawing landscapes.
I really dislike anything too flashy or bling-bling. If you have to have chrome spinners on your car just to make you feel like a real man, then you're not a real man. The true Alpha Male doesn't need to show off, everyone already knows he's the alpha male.
NOTE: I should point out that I am very much a polygamist and a polytheist. I was also deeply involved in the intelligence community, which has resulted in me being forced to be separated from all of my spouses and children for the next few years.
The universe is our playground, it's ours to explore, so I truly dislike it when people are too serious to take the time out to enjoy life's wonders. Also, if you are reading this profile with a negative mindset and searching for something in my profile that "proves I'm just a fake," then just move onto the next profile. I am the least fake person you will ever meet, and I am very, very tired of proving that to people. No matter what I do, so many people see me so negatively and do everything they can to prove I am not the genuine, honest, caring, and loyal man that I really am. If you're one of those types of people who seek to discredit me, just move along somewhere else. I am not interested in starting yet another flame war just to uphold my honor. Also, I realize that by stating that and by trying so hard to prove myself to be genuine, many of you will only see that as desperate attempts to hide being fake. However, in my case, that simply isn't true. I defend my honor so much because I have been blessed by so many people who deeply love me and I do not want to ever insult their memory by having my reputation be falsely tarnished. There are plenty of things I did do wrong and are legitimate reasons to dislike me, but there are far more reasons to like and love me. Also, if you wish to dislike me, so be it. Just be sure to dislike me for genuine reasons and not false reasons people just made up to make themselves feel better than me. It really doesn't matter if I am or am not better than you. I treat everyone with compassion and consideration and I expect to be treated the same. I have been one of the most philanthropic people of all-time and as such, I expect you all to keep that in mind when determining your opinions of me. Sure, I am flawed and sometimes I can even be arrogant (more often than not I only appear to be arrogant because I am so articulate and accurate in what I say that it gives off an air of arrogance, especially towards those who are ignorant and don't read books), but really, I am genuinely a person you will be thankful to know.
1) The universe is one big playground.
2) Be unique. Be the black sheep. There's enough ordinary sheep out there already.
NOTE: I DON'T HAVE THE UPGRADED OKCUPID, SO I CAN'T TELL WHO RATES ME HIGHLY. SO IF YOU WANT TO HEAR FROM ME, MESSAGE ME!