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65 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 56–62
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:55pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Now.... I'm prejudiced so.... I might be: (brace for adjectival listing) a goodnatured, easygoing, nearly normal, gregarious, introspective, candid, liberal, casual, intimate and logical guy. In love with animals and nature, prone to harmless teasing yet emotionally honest. An idealistic realist. (yes it's possible) Passionate about fitness.
In search of a sidekick/confidant/partner. You know a girlie Tonto, Sancho Panza. Relaxed in her nature, unmedicated, bright, with a warm smile, unconventional, active and fit. A salt of the earth sort. Or.... a plausible likeness.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just tryin' to grasp a bit of wisdom, feel gratified and like many others, make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having relaxed conversations, recognising the presence of a great woman, introspection, peering through pretense.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"You obviously take good care of yourself" I hear this quite a bit during initial meetings and I sure try to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The art of racing in the rain, Jitterbug perfume, Another roadside attraction, Dances with wolves, Pulp Fiction, Something about Mary, The Godfather, Fargo, Short Cuts, The Shawshank Redemption, Silver linings playbook, HBO programing, KCET, Norah Jones, Van Morrison, Leonard Cohen, Anne Lennox, Eagles, Peter Gabriel, artichoke pasta, fruits and veggies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passionate kisses, the feminine smile, slow dancing, the night sky, an occasional giggle, flying planes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relating, the workings of my psyche, the human condition, animal welfare, what Carl Jung was really saying, maintaining vibrance and of course sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late, meeting friends for dinner, attending an art opening, catching a Laker game, departing for a weekend hike in the redwoods.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I find a woman in a halter top and jeans so very attractive. (Please, please don't tell a soul)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
While browsing the above: Youv'e been grinning or making a humm..... sound or thought "Maybe I could like this guy." So..... "Just gimme some kind of sign girl."