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levity19

44 Melbourne, Australia Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:29am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When I was a child I wanted to be a radio announcer: I thought people squeezed into the radio every morning, then grew again every night. these days i like to have more space to move in.

I live in Castlemaine (an arty Goldfields town) and work in Melbourne (research, film-making community projects) -a foot in the city & the country. I adore shared projects, riotous conversation and expanding possibilities.

I'm looking for a connection with someone like-minded of a similar age, who values heart and intellect in equal parts. I also want to have a child. A willingness to accommodate this in some way is essential!

I'm a secular humanist who enjoys debating/exploring philosophical and psychological questions. Religious doctrine is something I find troubling -I don't want to share my beloved with Jesus or Allah. I do value aspects of Buddhism but would describe myself as practical rather than spiritual. I'm also more interested in talking about a film, an intriguing piece of art or the government's inhumanity to asylum seekers rather than the havoc we are inflicting on the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making some wicking beds in the garden
eating marscapone, rose-water, honey & ground pistachio on fruit toast
thinking through the narrative curve-balls life throws up
looking at art and design books
hankering after a great movie viewing experience
writing
making 3 commissioned short films about identity and belonging
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
putting together words and images
coming up with exciting projects with other people
change
having conversations and really listening
being a friend
thinking on my toes
wriggling my ears
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
warmth
ability to really listen
talent for spinning a good story
freckles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Grey Gardens (doco)
mystery train
Samson & delilah
you & me & everyone we know
tarkovsky movies
almodovar
Withnail & i
La Jettee,
The Tall Man Death & Life on Palm island
In Treatment
Zadie Smith
The poetry of Charles Simic
Granta
Griffith review
Food: mainly vietnamese & japanese inspired and fresh vegetables and fruit. Love cooking
Music: Gil Scott Heron, Feist, M. Ward, Smog, Cat Power, Ryan Adams, Rokia Traore, Anouar Brahem
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reflective, wide ranging, critical conversations
Shared dinners (its lovely cooking for and with someone)
Films
Eros in all its varieties
Imagination & the creative impulse
Friendship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what i'm going to cook
Films i've seen & films i might like to make
Critical ideas & things i'd like to change in the world
Social justice, racism, gender politics human rights
art, design, visual stuff
everything, actually
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical friday night -depends how i'm feeling & what's inviting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not especially private. But at the moment I'm angry about casual misogynism, bad films and people with poor interpersonal skills.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You value an open heart and intellect in equal measure, are curious about the world, empathetic, playful and a genuinely interested in a relationship. And we have some common interests. Please don't contact me if you are in an open relationship, a polyamorous relationship or are 15 years older or younger. Very happy to have friendships with any age, but am looking for someone my own age for a romance.