So, I have done online before, some looking for serious, some looking for casual, and now I'm just not looking really. I enjoy dating, and I also enjoy being single, but I don't need someone to make me feel good about myself.
In the whole scheme of things, I am fairly busy, and just want someone who can go with the flow, and let things ride out. No need for pressure right off the bat when we are just meeting for the first time. I feel online dating has taken the actual "dating" out of my world, now it seems when meeting, expectations are higher for a relationship. I am interested in friends as well....there doesn't have to be that romantic spark, if your a cool chic, I want to know you.
About me...I am a fun, positive, laid back guy. I work a normal 8-5 job, but I also operate a catering/mobile BBQ company on the side. This is where my schedule can get hectic....it is a new thing, but it takes up a lot of weekends and evenings. So, if your into that sort of thing, company is always welcome, cooking with someone I like is always a nice adventure. I am wanting to get into competitions next year.
When I do get time to wind down, I'm not all that exciting. I like to go out for drinks usually...or to a show. I love music, good music...which is typically a show at a local bar, never Rupp, few exceptions of course. I spend a lot of time in my kitchen, cooking is relaxing for me. I do watch a good deal of TV, my DVR is the best thing since sunlight..lol. Sports....love 'em, Bears, Cubs, and Cats are my teams...I tailgate a lot as well. Pretty much sums me up...:)
The kind of girl I need...I don't have a checklist or anything, just need simple. Please don't be uptight, or judgmental...and be fun. I am a personality based guy, and looks usually take second with me, I am looking for the same type of girl. I want to know we can hold a convo after several dates, and laugh together.