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33 M Cape Town, South Africa

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jun 26
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Afrikaans (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love big ideas. I love talking about/ exploring/ debating them.

I *like* hiking and going to the beach etc, but I can't really describe myself as an outdoorsy person, but I do love both watching and playing sport (I'm pretty good at some).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a lecturer, which I like a lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
At one point I was possibly the world's leading expert on poking dead fish. 30 seconds, having contrarian opinions about stuff, remembering random trivia, basketball (basically, the important stuff).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Don't know. I'm pretty quiet with people I've just met. Sometimes that comes across as shy, sometimes aloof. Shy is more accurate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catch 22, Atonement, Enduring Love, Lolita, The Plague, The Fall, jonathan strange and mr norrell, the Song of Ice and Fire series, Moby Dick, Crime and Punishment, the Iliad, Permutation City, Player of Games, Right Ho Jeeves...

Music: The Pixies, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, The White Stripes, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The Kinks, The XX, Kanye West, Phoenix, Vampire Weekend, Hot Chip, Beach House, Bon Iver, Pander Bear, The Cure, Wilco, Sufjan Stevens, Magazine, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, LCD Sound System, The Talking Heads, Guided by Voices, Santigold, Lana Del Ray, the Knife...

Movies: Stanley Kubrick films, Martin Scorsese films, Pixar films, No Country for Old Men, Fargo, The Bourne Supremacy, The Godfather (1&2), Apocalypse Now, Pulp Fiction, Lord of the Rings, The Dark Knight, The Prestige, Star Wars, The Matrix, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Spirited Away, Mystic River, Unforgiven, The Searchers, Memento, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels...

Series: The Sopranos, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Community, (classic) Simpsons, Parks and Recreation, Damages, Rome, Yes, Prime Minister, Fawlty Towers, Top Gear, Veronica Mars, Modern Family...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stuff to read, stuff to watch, stuff to listen to, some gadget for previous three things, interesting intellectual conversation, some (hopefully fun) physical activity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Important things! Including thinking about what is worth thinking about.

Philosophy, economics, history, sport, the future (personally and in general) etc
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At at pub with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not religious, but some of my ideas about life, the universe and everything count as weird.
You should message me if
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You're single and you think my profile is a good match with your interests