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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Ah, the self-summary... what a splendor it is. Mine was due for a revamp I suppose. I'm tall and smart. I occasionally get called good looking. I'm into dorky things like music, science, long philosophical rants, and my work as a pretty awesome massage therapist. In ways, I'm almost as uptight as my lily-white Mormon farm boy upbringing would lead you to believe, and in other ways well... let's just say I'm a number of clicks left of liberal. I just graduated with a degree in Urban Planning so I'm usually running around looking for work or killing loads of my time on OkCupid or sundry other questionable websites. My wonderful family is in the bay area, so I'm always loved-annoyed-delighted-entertained. I have 2 cats which are pretty much the most noble creatures on the planet. (Just ask them, they will undoubtedly agree.) I'm also in a several-year-long relationship with one of the world's most amazing guys (Hale_). When we're not tending to our amazingly adorable new son, (we're raising him together with his mother) we like inviting boys over to cuddle, bake cookies, and watch movies (either separately or together). I'm friendly, one might even say a little *too* friendly if one weren't very slutty... but then I don't know many people like that in this corner of the world. So say hello.
What I’m doing with my life
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Giving incredible massages.

My website ^

Looking for work in city planning. Meeting the amazing
denizens of our amazing city. Cuddling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Deep tissue massage. Making jokes that no one else gets. Making jokes that only my friends get. Changing the subject. Making myself feel uncomfortable around new people. Deep tissue massage. Knowing obscure song lyrics. Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is the pitchfork I carry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Doors of Perception, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Halloween Tree, To Kill a Mockingbird, Frannie And Zooey, Oryx and Crake, Naked, The Poisonwood Bible, Where The Wild Things Are, To The Lighthouse, Ham on Rye...

Up, Boyhood, The Last Supper, Mysterious Skin, Clash of The Titans, The Fountain, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind, Dangerous Liasons, Impromptu, Shaun of The Dead, Adaptation, What The Bleep Do We Know, I Heart Huckabees, Sinbad and the Eye of the Tiger, Time Bandits, LOTR, The Cook, The Thief, His Wife, and Her Lover, Something Wicked This Way Comes, The Dark Crystal, American Beauty, Like Water For Chocolate, Cinema Paradiso, Dark City, Clue...

Sufjan Stevens, Rufus Wainwright, Sigur Ros, Stars, Jens Lekman, Underworld, Thievery Corp, Iron & Wine, Dead Can Dance, Erlend Oye, Frou Frou, Howie Day, Kitchens of Distinction, Magnetic Fields, Peter Murphy, Stereolab, The Cure, The Notwist, UNKLE, The Decemberists, Legendary Pink Dots, Sisters of Mercy, Mazzy Star, Portishead, Fila Brazilia, Kings of Convenience, Air, Alphaville, Barry Adamson, XTC, Bjork, Bright Eyes, Fischerspooner, Grace Jones, Kate Bush, Low, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Zero 7, The The, etc...

I'm vegetarian, so Indian, Thai, Mexican, my mom's house, freezer aisle at TJ's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people I love, Moments of Transcendent Clarity, petrichor, beautiful men, psithurisms, Unicorns!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not the universe really is trying to tell me something. How much our own focus and expectations influence the future. How so many people have become brainwashed into Brave-New-World-style intellectual submission. The cumulative weight of our everyday choices as humans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
amused in some fashion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a shop-aholic who rarely buys anything.
You should message me if
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you enjoy clap-tracks and cowbells, are a celebrity in your own mind, or you have a non-derogatory nickname that you got as an adult. Or you're bored... it's your mouse to click.