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30 • Philadelphia, PA • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–38
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Jul 19
- Queer, Pansexual
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
I've also never quite left the nerd in me behind so I still really love fantasy, sci-fi and comic books (specifically Y: The Last Man, Saga, Manhattan Projects, Watchmen, Sandman, Batwoman: Elegy, All-Star Superman or basically anything Grant Morrison puts his hands on, Kelly Sue Deconnick's Captain Marvel, Matt Fraction's Hawkeye, anything by Gail Simone but especially Secret Six, Planetary, Daniel Clowes, Chris Ware, Anders Nilsen, Dash Shaw, Kate Beaton, Dwayne McDuffie, Kieron Gillen). Right now The Wicked & Divine is probably the book I look the most forward to every month, it's just utterly fantastic.
Books: I just finished The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt and it was absolutely fantastic, as are all of her books. I'm now reading Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Redemption in Indigo by Karen Lord and both are wonderful. Stone Arabia by Dana Spiotta is another recent favorite. Huge fan of Murakami and Alice McDermott among a million other things.
TV shows: Sense8, Hannibal, Adventure Time, Gravity Falls, Bravest Warriors, Over the Garden Wall, Avatar & Korra, Rectify, Slings & Arrows, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Deadwood, Enlightened, Community, Happy Endings, Ben & Kate, Better Off Ted, Terriers, The Americans, Arrested Development, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, Lost, Fringe, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Orphan Black, Hannibal and the first 3 Star Trek shows...for a start.
Food: I like food.
Home cooking (especially home baked bread)
The internet (unfortunately)
Easy access to music whenever I need to listen to it which is 85% of my day.
I completely get that the open marriage thing is new and weird for many folks. If you're curious or have any questions about how this works for us, please feel comfortable asking me. I won't be offended or have any expectations if you do.
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