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30 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a black male living in San Francisco who likes to learn new things, dance, and chill. I consider myself a chill dude who is open to all sorts of activities, but if I have the choice I will end up on a dance floor, cutting it up.

I am among the rare breed of African American burners. I have been blessed with a family of creative and talented friends.

My main joy in life is learning: learning about people, places, foods, life lessons -- anything. Maybe my next subject will be you?

I am curious, intelligent, and friendly, and I want to meet great people. I am in an awesome and committed non-monogamous relationship, and we believe that there is plenty of love to go around.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building stuff by typing words (aka software).
When I'm not working, I'm (salsa) dancing.
When I'm not dancing, I'm out adventurin'.
When I'm not adventurin', I'm chillin'.

While I'm at it, I'm trying to give a little back.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems, rolling blunts, relaxing, salsa dancing, engaging conversation, and using my words carefully.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am a black guy with green eyes. And, these days, the budding fro.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
To be brief and not spoil the fun of discovery, I love:
Sex at Dawn,
The Big Lebowski,
Lupe Fiasco,
Arrested Development,
and I will eat almost anything from the sea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good pair of salsa shoes.
A healthy pair of legs.
Opportunities to create.
The process of learning.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can maximize my time on Earth. Time is a scarce resource that can't be saved for later, so I strive to spend it well.

The magnificence of human ingenuity. We live in marvelous times, yo.

What should I learn about next?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After a long week, I have been known to cut loose and go out with my tribe of fellow burners, find a dance floor to cut up, or decide to take it easy.

After a short week, I'm probably feeling nostalgic for the reason it felt short.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was hit in my left eye with a golf ball when I was 6 years old. The aftermath is that I now have anisocoria.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You either don't mind or love that I'm in an open relationship, you have something awesome to teach me, you like to dance, you enjoy wit, or if you simply think we would get along.