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27 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Body Type
Not at all
Other and it’s important
Working on Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a feminist graduate student, a kitsch collector, a well-rounded weirdo, and on the moderate to dominant side. I can wield a whip with ease but performing dominance tends to bring out my nervous side (a personality quirk, not a problem).

I'm happily partnered but we're looking for a lady friend.

My partner is an attractive aging hipster, a sea of knowledge, just as weird as me, and on the shy and submissive spectrum.

We're looking to meet someone who wouldn't mind nude lounging, coffee, and telling us about your strange sexual quirks.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not sending you a message because we don't want to be that creepy couple. Waiting for you to get in touch because you're curious about meeting some sweet, sincere, and incredibly casual kinksters. We do the BDSM thing but we're not overly serious and definitely not scary.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mind altering substances, cheese platters, and finding all the best second hand stuff.

School work and how to avoid school work.

Getting you off, tying you up, bringing out snacks while we're taking a break because that's the kind of middle age swinger I'm turning out to be.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, his beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Come over and browse our bookshelf.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In this desired scenario?

1. Play
2. Perversions
3. Good music
4. Incense
5. Leather
6. Consent
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anarchists, situationists, art fags, aging aristocrats, sophisticated seniors, OTK spankers, orgy organizers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hot bath and a movie in bed... or eating h'ordeurves on a yacht with rich older swingers (if we're lucky).

We aren't drinkers, but can be druggers from time to time. We like to party at home.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like BDSM and group sex and cis-men and ladies. You like your men submissive and your women moderate. You're fine with being the third. Maybe you're busy like us and just want some fun company from time to time.