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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:40pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I am a dude who makes things. Pleasantries.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a tiny video game studio. It's what I've wanted to do ever since I was a little kid and I love it. I'm finally living the dream, and it's scary and difficult and exciting.

I am also a perennially unpublished science fiction writer. The validation of making it to print hardly matters anymore--I don't think I could stop if I wanted to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
According to my friends, I have a knack for pointing out that one thing you've always felt but were never able to put into words.

In much the same fashion as a silly OKCupid test, this talent gives people the impression that I'm wiser than I really am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to drop five-dollar words in ordinary conversation. I promise I'm not doing it to impress you! It's just how I talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This section is really shorthand for "what do you like that I might like?" so I might as well just tell you outright: I live many different, mutually exclusive lives. I'd be happy to introduce you to any of them.

I am a longtime friend of the Silent Barn It's a DIY space in Bushwick that serves as a experimental music venue, theater, gallery, barbershop, record store, law firm, artists' residence, and hangout spot. It's like something out of a David Lynch dream sequence and there's really nowhere else like it.

I'm a familiar face in the New York chiptune scene (a lo-fi marriage between EDM and punk rock), and am no stranger to raging mosh pits and muggy secret basement venues.

I hang out in dive bars listening to aspiring singer-songwriters belt out their life stories over four chords on a steel string acoustic, unaware of their own talent, sincere and free in the mistaken understanding that no one is really listening. I hum Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah" on the walk home.

I trade webcomics recommendations. I believe Mallory Ortberg is a national treasure. I have lost a once-strong faith in literary fiction (Julian Barnes and Haruki Murakami were my favorites). I love off-Broadway theater but off-Broadway theater doesn't love me. I go to poetry readings alone. I think Barthes makes excellent pillow talk.

I talk about dead video game studios the way blues men talk about their exes.

I don't do the wine, Netflix, and trivia night kind of life. It's not that I wouldn't enjoy them, it's that I am afraid of my own mortality.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Just one: Hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The intersection between Hamlet and chess that is always just out of my grasp. Urrrrgh!

Well-meaning people in high places doing awful things. The long lists of intersectional adjectives my politically radical friends string together to trick everyone into thinking that all compassionate people share the same enemies. (It's not working.)

The giddy, hopeful audacity of investing in love and/or family in a world that feels like it's going to teeter into full-blown dystopia any minute.

Checkin' my male privilege.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, making stuff, or rockin' out. (See "Favorite x, y, z....")
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was born here but I grew up in a foreign country. I'm not impressed by your travel selfies. :)
You should message me if
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you are not a solipsist.