I do have kiddos. I do not talk about them until I get to know someone really well. There are too many crazy people out there and my kids are my everything. After a couple of dates, I will be more than happy to share.
I believe in the golden rule as well as I think it's the small things that mean the most. Sweet morning text, cooking a nice dinner (yes I can cook and well), note in a suitcase on a long business trip, yes a flower from time to time. I think you get the point.
I'm still a guy. I still watch football with my friend, drink a beer, joke and laugh, and go fishing.