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lighting_emily

22 / F / Straight / Available

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Jan 31
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am in an open relationship (an honest one, not a swingrich) with my wonderful partner. I am not looking for a primary partner. If you're not cool with open relationships, you should probably keep looking. If you're down with them, game on!

I am a lighting designer for theater and concerts.

I think that getting lost is the best way to discover new things.

I am shy at first, but once I start talking to someone, I open up.

If I could, I would travel as often as possible, to as many different places as possible. I love languages, especially Italian. I love learning about people and about the different ways different groups of people express the same feelings.

I am creative, logical, and optimistic

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What I’m doing with my life
I am a freelance lighting designer. I work in a bookstore. I have no idea where I will be in five years. I take life as it comes and try to make the most of it.

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I’m really good at
laughing, singing, making chocolate chip cookies, and being generally awesome

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The first things people usually notice about me
eyes (because of the glasses maybe?)

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Of Mice and Men, Les Miserables, Dune, Brave New World, America The Book: A Citizen's Guide To Democracy Inaction, The God Delusion, The Gospel of the Flying Spaghetti Monster

Movies: Dead Poets Society, Monty Python (any and all), La Vita E' Bella (Life Is Beautiful), The Godfather, Team America, Spaceballs, The Lion King (you know you love it too)

TV shows: How I Met Your Mother, Mythbusters, The A-Team, Big Bang Theory, Mad Men, Whose Line Is It Anyway?

Webcomics: xkcd, Questionable Content, Cyanide and Happiness, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, The Oatmeal, Pon and Zi

Music: Anything and everything. I love world music (especially Irish and Italian). I also love showtunes, but I don't subject people to that unless I know they like it.
Irish - Gaelic Storm, Celtic Tenors, U2, Scythian, Enter the Haggis, The Elders, The Pogues, Red Hot Chilli Pipers, Seth Lakeman
Italian - Tiziano Ferro, Ligabue, Fiorella Mannoia, Zero Assoluto, Niccolo' Fabi, Vittorio Grigolo, Chiaraluna
other - Matchbox 20, Journey, Jonathan Coulton, Josh Groban, Culcha Candela, Blessid Union of Souls, Owl City, Doobie Brothers, Ladysmith Black Mambazo, Billy Joel, Queen, Dresden Dolls, The Beatles, "Let's Go to the Mall" and "Sandcastles in the Sand" by Robin Sparkles

Food: Italian by far, but really anything tasty is good.

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The six things I could never do without
the people I love
laughter
music
good conversation
sunshine
incandescent light bulbs (fluorescent light makes my inner lighting designer cry)

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of things. Lately it's been mostly about:
-who and what is most important to me.
-food. It's delicious!
-religion. As an atheist, religions are fascinating to me. What people believe, how they react to questions about their beliefs, and how they relate to people who believe differently than they do says everything about a person's character.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Probably at drinking and watching TV with my awesome roommates.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have trouble beating myself at rock paper scissors.

If you ask nicely, I just might tell you my name on fetlife.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 20-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like bread. I've got a french loaf!

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