i'm queer (pansexual if that's yr bag) and very open-minded about my potential for attraction, a point which is unfortunately irreconcilable with okcupid's limited gender/sexual preference options.
(listing as a bi male doesn't do it justice but oh fuckin' well)
i'm interested in seeking varied types of connection/intimacy with multiple people which is a fancy way of saying i'm non-monogamous. it is not a fancy way of saying i'm unreliable or not interested in serious things. as a note, i do have a sweetie who i spend a good amount of my free time with, so most of my interests are on the casual/low time-commitment end of the spectrum right now.
straight cisgender dudes: feel free to click away now.
i'm pretty introverted and ridiculously shy. infj.