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lightningtea

31 M Troy, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:15pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a completely unashamed nerd in a plethora of ways and I'm overall fairly happy with my life. I love computers and technology, video games, card games, intelligent political discourse, watching horrible B-movies, and eating all kinds of wonderful food.

I am currently married to my wife of 8 years and we have recently decided to have an open relationship. So far it is working out well for both of us and it has done much to improve our personal lives.

I've lived in the Capital Region for about 4 years now and, while it is not my ideal place to live, I think I am adapting quite well. I aspire to one day return to the ocean from whence I came (I was born and raised in Florida) but currently the strands of fate are pulling me towards the west coast. That is a dream to be realized in the future, however. For now, I am here and will remain so.

I'm looking for people who share my hobbies, perhaps my intellectualism and love for all things electronic, and mostly just people who are good-spirited and like to hang out. I am not a party person at all. I rather detest the idea of assembling large groups of people for any purpose that does not involve twenty-sided dice, theatrical performance, or Mortal Kombat ladder matches. I feel that small groups are the best groups and that any voice in a crowd larger than 8-10 is not being heard on its own merits well enough.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently started a new job with a state contractor. I'm about to begin making some major changes in my life, all of which are good things. I just need to get myself centered before diving in first.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. I am likely one of the most sarcastic people you will ever know, but I also know when to shut up and listen. I like to tell stories, and I'm very good at improvisational acting and comedy. At least I tell myself that, anyway.
The first things people usually notice about me
Correct spelling and punctuation? If you mean what is most noticeable about me in person, however, I'm not sure. Perhaps once I meet a few people through here I'll take a poll!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mostly fantasy novels, particularly the Drizzt novels by R.A. Salvatore and Dan Abnett's Eisenhorn (Warhammer 40K). I'm also fond of the classic works of Poe and Shakespeare as well as some of H.P. Lovecraft's work.

Movies: The Matrix, pretty much anything with Arnold Schwarzenegger, all of the Star Trek films (though I'm not overly fond of the reboot), Aliens, and probably lots more that would fill the page. I like action/sci-fi movies the best, but I like a good sprinkling of horror and suspense as well.

Shows: COSMOS, Breaking Bad, all things Star Trek, Supernatural, The Walking Dead.

Music: Anything Maynard James Keenan or Trent Reznor has ever done. Turn-of-the-millenium alternative (Korn, Disturbed, Green Day, Beastie Boys, etc.). Dubstep (guilty pleasure). Katy Perry (even guiltier pleasure). I'm pretty flexible though, so long as it's not country or gangsta rap.

Food: Ethnic dishes, particularly Indian, Mexican, or Chinese. Pretty much anything that isn't seafood (shrimp is acceptable). I have a love for "needless gluttony foods" as well, like bacon cheeseburgers or pizza covered in meat and cheeses.
The six things I could never do without
The Internet
A notebook (with writing implements)
Delicious food
Friends
My cat
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Psychology, metaphysics, and the wonders of unknown space. I am an astronomy nerd and a computer geek and when I'm not entertaining thoughts of campaigns I want to run, I'm planning my next technological experiment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either running, playing in, or looking for a tabletop RPG game. Pathfinder, World of Darkness, Shadowrun, MechWarrior, D&D, you name it. Mostly Pathfinder, though.

Of course, lately the answer to this question is "working." VIVA LA NIGHT SHIFT!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I listen to Katy Perry while I do dishes or other housework.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You need more puns in your life.
You need more gaming in your life.
You like having friends who can cook.