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36 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:10am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Practical Dreamer. Singing as I walk down the streets. You will find it either charming or annoying. More than likely both.

I'm an extrovert, and thrive on meeting new folks. But I also work long hours which sometimes gets in the way.

I was born in SF, which makes me, in my determination, a unicorn.

According to e.e. cummings, "yes is the only living thing." I agree.

I am halcyon, breathy, and inventive

ENFP. Entertainer. Good listener.
What I’m doing with my life
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Revising. I fancy myself a conquistador of experience. Give me a bridge, dare me to jump, and watch.

I teach writing and reading and all things inbetween; that's how I fill my pockets, and to a certain degree, my heart. I also play guitar, sing, craft line-breaks in poems, hike lazy-level mountains, hold poses named after things I am not: warrior, cobra and chair. I taste wine; I make food with friends; and I read - a lot.

Lately, I've been doing a lot of travel too. Summers off are a great boon. In the past couple years not only have I moved from NYC to SF, I've hit Sequim, Seattle, Walla Walla, Portland, Eugene, Idaho Falls, Jackson Hole, Yellowstone, Grand Tetons, Mesa Verde, Bryce Canyon, Taos Pueblo, Chaco Canyon, Monument Valley, and then, my international stint took me to Lisbon and Sintra Portugal; as well as Munich, Kassel and Frankfurt Germany. Don't talk to me about Berlin - I know I should have made it there. Whatever. I'll go back. I have to get to Vienna anyhow. Last summer I took a trip to South Africa, and my eyes are still seeing new colors as a result of what I saw there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
meeting new people
meeting deadlines
meeting in the middle
The first things people usually notice about me
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My voice, my height?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just Kids, This is Where I Leave You, Will Grayson, Grapes of Wrath, My Antonia, The Possibility of Everything, Water for Elephants, The Alchemist, Einstein's Dreams, and Fieldnotes from a Disaster. I love poets Eula Biss, Nick Flynn, Michael Tieg, Jeffrey McDaniel, Wallace Stevens, Sylvia Plath, and e. e. cummings.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Office Space, Return to Oz, Before Sunrise, Being John Malcovitch, and yep, The Notebook.

Hunter Hays, Fun, Mumford & Sons, Hey Marseilles, Indigo Girls (guilty pleasure), Matt Pond PA, Kings of Convenience, Bon Iver, Bloc Party, Animal Collective, Feist, Kris Delmhorst, The Annuals, Magnetic Fields, John Butler Trio, Jump Little Children, Rainer Maria, Bonnie "Prince" Billy.... etc..

I have a sweet tooth, but I'm allergic to most sweets.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends & family
art & music making
baked goods
the process of discovery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hope as an intangible tool. How amazing maps are.

Also, according to OKC, I am 99.6% compatible with myself. I wonder if that's apt.
You should message me if
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you're curious and creative, and you can make me laugh.
you're tall enough that I can kiss you wearing heels.