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30 Dover, DE Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:32pm
Heteroflexible, Bisexual, Sapiosexual
White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a lover of many forms of art, science and the culinary world. I appreciate creativity, practicality, out-of-the-box thinking and readily admit to both having my head in the clouds and my feet planted firmly on the ground (despite not being that tall). I'm a photographer, working mostly in the music industry and occasionally some fashion and combined digital art projects. It's a crazy world, but I love it all the same.

I'm a huge nerd for all things space-related. The complexity of the universe is fascinating, and if you wanna talk about cool physics stuff, I'm totally down.

Although I don't anymore, I have worked in kitchens off and on for a long time and learned a lot about food. I'm probably a better cook than photographer, but I suppose that depends on the tastes of who's consuming either of my creations. :)

I like to continually challenge myself to expand my knowledge of the world, be it through science, culinary pursuits, or art, and I enjoy surrounding myself with people who aid toward that goal.

I'm somewhere between INFJ and INTP.

I like drum & bass and belly dancers. I think that's a good cross section of me.

I'm not put off by differences between myself and other people (race, gender identity, sexuality, body type, butch/femme/queer, sub/dom, etc.) and I'd hope you wouldn't be either.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring things out.

As a photographer I do many things, though I work mostly in the EDM (electronic dance music, for those unfamiliar) world. I guess you could call me a professional raver, minus all(/most of?) the drugs and feeling up on strangers. And no, I don't wear candy or UFOs. What is this, the 90s?

I also make and sell jewelry, usually with some sort of modern take on vintage elements.

I'm a pretty ambitious person and, while I've achieved a lot of goals so far, I'm constantly coming up with new ones. I've done some pretty awesome stuff, but there's way more to come.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, talking, being both organized and disorganized, takin' pictures, digital art/photomanipulation, jewelry making, cosmetics, being a teeeeny bit of a control freak during photo shoots. I've been known to harass the guys in charge of stage lighting until they do what I want.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, usually my eyes and/or smile.
Personality-wise, that I'm well-spoken and can be rather blunt.

I don't know if I'd say this is a first impression people get from me, but this is how a friend recently described me:
"you're very strong, and very different and complex, and you don't give a shit haha".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Contrary to what my personality may suggest, I'm not actually a big reader. While I do like reading, I tend to be more visually-oriented and have somewhat of a short attention span. So, I'm more likely to read short things (articles, poems, short stories) than loads of long books. Having said that, I've always liked Journey To the Center of the Earth, and last year read an amazing book called the Raw Shark Texts.

Movies: Grindhouse (Death Proof, particularly, though Rose McGowan with a machine gun for a leg was pretty badass), the Chinese Botanist's Daughters, Wit, Pi, Requiem For A Dream, Half Baked, the Great Gatsby, Donnie Darko, Sucker Punch, The Recipe, Memento, Mao's last Dancer.

TV Shows: Orange Is The New Black (Laura Prepon can SO be my prison wife, even if she is a scientologist), True Detective, Castle (oh, captain <3), Firefly, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Chozen, Are You Being Served (Mrs. Slocombe's pussy <3), Wilfred, Glee (don't judge me), MST3K, Good Eats, Big Bang Theory, Orphan Black, Penny Dreadful, and even though it took me a while to warm up to it, the IT Crowd.

Music: While I love many sorts of music, the soundtrack to my soul undoubtedly contains large amounts of liquid drum & bass. High Contrast, Etherwood, Lung, Technimatic, Submorphics, argh, just SO many. I could list them for days, but I'll spare you. I'm a hardcore junglist (BOH!), and if you are too, we might get along. ;) If you're unaware of dnb, however, please feel free to educate yourself:
Boh Submorphics!
(Sound quality and bass are hugely important here, so please, HD and good headphones or a proper system only)
Apart from that, I also love electroswing and/or modern takes on regular swing (the Correspondents, Alice Francis, Caravan Palace, the Speakeasy Three), Metric, Esthero, the Roots, the Sounds, Janelle Monae, a shit ton of oldies/Motown (the Beach Boys, the Carpenters, Marvin Gaye, the Contours, etc.) and countless other things.

Food: I've worked in kitchens off and on for a long time and am a total foodie. I'm a bit atypical about it though (as with most things), in that I don't really care for most American food, I never use recipes and I prefer fusion and influence over traditional styles. My favorite food is sushi, and as a cook/chef I pull influences from Asian, Latin, Italian and Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A camera, a way to create art, access to what's happening in the science world, dem innanets and two other things I can't think of at the moment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, ways to improve my business, food, art/design, and what I can do to better myself and my life as a whole.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends. I could be out taking in a show, chillin' with friends or by myself at home making stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a grammar nazi. I try to be pretty cool about it, but if you say "conversating", I WILL scold you for it.

I am, perhaps not so secretly, REALLY amused by the fact that dnb DJs have their own slang. "Big ups to the one like (name)!" and such. I at *least* crack a smile every time I hear a DJ say it.

Were I to at some point decide marriage is for me, and actually marry someone, I'd want this guy to do the ceremony:
You should message me if
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You're smart, interesting, ambitious and open-minded.
And looking for something other than casual sex.
And have something to say other than "hi how are you".