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31 Dover, DE Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:13pm
Heteroflexible, Bisexual, Sapiosexual
White, Other
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I can't see who "likes" me, so if you do, just send me a message.

I'm a lover of many forms of art, science and the culinary world. I appreciate creativity, practicality, out-of-the-box thinking and readily admit to both having my head in the clouds and my feet planted firmly on the ground (despite not being that tall). I'm an event photographer, working mostly in the music industry and occasionally some fashion and combined digital art projects. It's a crazy world, but I love it all the same.

I'm a huge nerd for all things space-related (except scifi stuff -- very little of that). The complexity of the universe is fascinating, and if you wanna talk about cool physics stuff, I'm totally down.

I like to continually challenge myself to expand my knowledge of the world, be it through science, culinary pursuits, or art, and I enjoy surrounding myself with people who aid toward that goal.

I'm somewhere between INFJ and INTP.

I'm not put off by differences between myself and other people (race, gender identity, sexuality, body type, butch/femme/queer, etc. -- though I *do* have a preference for doms and switches) and I'd hope you wouldn't be either.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just moved back to DE from NYC.

Going back to school. I've recently realized how much I missed out on by not continuing my education further and, well, it's never too late, right? I'm a relatively smart person, so it shouldn't be too difficult hopefully.

Also giving some consideration to studying for voice-over work. I've heard most of my life that I should be doing something with my voice, and I very well may.

As an event photographer I do many things, though what I love most is working with musicians, particularly of the EDM/drum & bass variety. I guess you could call me a professional raver, minus all(/most of?) the drugs and feeling up on strangers. And no, I don't wear candy or UFOs. What is this, the 90s?
Trying to get more into fashion photography as well. Especially vintage/20s and steampunk.

I also make and sell jewelry, usually with some sort of modern take on vintage elements, with the occasional bit of steampunk thrown in.

I'm a pretty ambitious person and, while I've achieved a lot of goals so far, I'm constantly coming up with new ones. I've done some pretty awesome stuff, but there's way more to come.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, talking, being both organized and disorganized, takin' pictures, digital art/photomanipulation, jewelry making, cosmetics, being a teeeeny bit of a control freak during photo shoots. I've been known to harass the guys in charge of stage lighting until they do what I want.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, usually my eyes, smile, or voice.
Personality-wise, that I'm well-spoken and can be rather blunt.

I don't know if I'd say this is a first impression people get from me, but this is how a friend recently described me:
"you're very strong, and very different and complex, and you don't give a shit haha".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: To be honest, I have a hard time finding books that I enjoy. I love Journey To the Center of the Earth, and a while back came across a really strange and awesome book called the Raw Shark Texts, but I'm not too sure what else I'd like. Had a friend give me a Vonnegut book but it was too depressing for me, so y'know, I'm open to suggestions .

Movies: Grindhouse (Death Proof, particularly, though Rose McGowan with a machine gun for a leg was pretty badass), the Chinese Botanist's Daughters, Half Baked, the Great Gatsby, Donnie Darko, Sucker Punch, The Recipe, Memento, Mao's last Dancer.

TV Shows: Orange Is The New Black (Laura Prepon can SO be my prison wife, even if she is a scientologist), Castle (oh, captain <3), Firefly, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Chozen, Are You Being Served (Mrs. Slocombe's pussy <3), Wilfred, Glee (don't judge me), MST3K, Good Eats, Big Bang Theory, Orphan Black, and even though it took me a while to warm up to it, the IT Crowd.

Music: While I love many sorts of music, the soundtrack to my soul undoubtedly contains large amounts of drum & bass, especially of the liquid variety. Sigma, Etherwood, Lung, Technimatic, Submorphics, argh, just SO many. I could list them for days, but I'll spare you. I'm a hardcore junglist (oi oi!), and if you are too, we might get along. ;) If you're unaware of dnb, however, please feel free to educate yourself:
Boh Technimatic! That drop.. just.. ugh. SO GOOD.
(Sound quality and bass are hugely important here, so please, HD and good headphones or a proper system only)
Apart from that, I've been pretty into Chloe Howl lately... and I also love electroswing and/or modern takes on regular swing (the Correspondents, Alice Francis, Caravan Palace, the Speakeasy Three), Metric, Esthero, the Roots, the Sounds, Janelle Monae, a shit ton of oldies/Motown (the Beach Boys, the Carpenters, Marvin Gaye, the Contours, etc.) and countless other things.

Food: I've worked in kitchens off and on for a long time and am a total foodie. I'm a bit atypical about it though (as with most things), in that I don't really care for most American food, I never use recipes and I prefer fusion and influence over traditional styles. My favorite food is sushi, and as a cook/chef I pull influences from Asian, Latin, Italian and Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A camera, a way to create art, access to what's happening in the science world, dem innanets and two other things I can't think of at the moment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, ways to improve my business, food, art/design, and what I can do to better myself and my life as a whole.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends. I could be out taking in a show, chillin' with friends or by myself at home making stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a grammar nazi. I try to be pretty cool about it, but if you say "conversating", there's a strong chance I might scold you for it.

I may or may not have a crush on Anthony Bourdain.

Were I to at some point decide marriage is for me, and actually marry someone, I'd want this guy to do the ceremony:
You should message me if
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You're smart, interesting, ambitious and open-minded.
And looking for something other than casual sex.
And have something to say other than "hi how are you".