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empathic, sincere, and thinks too much

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I like film, literature, indie rock, social justice, sushi, literary theory, feminists and feminism, queer theory, gender deconstruction, autumn, dressing in layers, striped socks, knee-high socks on women, knee-high socks on me, Other Music, the Kids in the Hall, Jackson Pollock, Constantin Brancusi, Julia Margaret Cameron, Bruce Timm, fleeting moments of transcendence, making out, and Danskos. I taught myself how to read at age three. I tend to make passes at girls who wear glasses. I make really great mix CDs. I always cry at the end of Fargo. Pretty much from Marge's speech in the police car onward, without fail.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Writing and editing for a nonprofit membership organization.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

a. All Virginia Woolf (esp. The Waves), The Grapes of Wrath, Crime and Punishment, Here I Stand by Paul Robeson, Lies My Teacher Told Me, Revenge of the Latchkey Kids by Ted Rall, Gas War by Ted Rall, the Iliad by Homer, the Aeneid by Virgil, Fantastic Mr. Fox by Roald Dahl (with the Donald Chaffin illustrations), all Jung, all Chomsky, all Keats, all Derrida, all Cornel West, all Vonnegut, Spirit on the Wall, No More Masks, Anna Karenina, Beloved by Toni Morrison, Keith Haring: Journals, Give Our Regards to the Atomsmashers, Our Lady of the Flowers by Jean Genet, People's History of the US by Howard Zinn, Jews for Buchanan by John Nichols, Mastering the Art of French Cooking by Julia Child, My Life in France by Julia Child, Wish I Could Be There by Allen Shawn, Born Standing Up by Steve Martin, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay by Michael Chabon

b. All Hal Hartley, Meshes of the Afternoon, Persona, The Decalogue, Baseketball, Orgazmo, Eternal Sunshine, South Park, Crumb, American Splendor, Anticipation of the Night, The Blues Brothers, Rashomon, Throne of Blood, Yojimbo, Sanjuro, The Hidden Fortress, Black Orpheus, Enter the Dragon, Night of the Hunter, Le Cercle Rouge, Cape Fear (both versions), A Streetcar Named Desire, Annie Hall, 8 1/2, Shadows, all Goddard, all Nick Park, The King of Comedy, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, The Godfather, The Godfather Part II, Once Were Warriors, Amelie, Shaft, The Third Man, Raging Bull, This Is Spinal Tap, Pee Wee's Big Adventure, City of God, My Best Fiend, The Conformist, M, Whale Rider, Notorious C.H.O., High Art, Love and Death, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Man on Wire, Oldboy, Sideways, Rushmore, Pootie Tang, Zatoichi Meets Yojimbo, North by Northwest, The Proud Valley, Nothing But A Man, The Empire Strikes Back, Modern Times, Beastmaster, Broken Flowers, La Jetee, Jackie Brown, Bamboozled, Do the Right Thing, The Jazz Singer (the Neil Diamond version), Nine to Five, Walkabout, Dog Day Afternoon, Double Indemnity, A Hard Day's Night, Ghost Dog: The Way of the Samurai, Coffee and Cigarettes, Brokeback Mountain, Good Night and Good Luck, Down by Law, Miller's Crossing, Manufacturing Consent, Fargo, Citizen Kane, Fahrenheit 9/11, My Brother's Wedding, Killer of Sheep

c. Al Green, Joy Division, Guided by Voices, the Cure, Wu-Tang Clan (ODB RIP), invisible friend, anilore, Paul Robeson, Aesop Rock, Lily Allen, Antony and the Johnsons, Archers of Loaf, Band of Horses, Beat Happening, the Beatles, beatrice blinded, the Bee Gees, Biggie Smalls, the Birthday Party, Bjork, Blake Babies, Bloc Party, Blonde Redhead, David Bowie, Broken Social Scene, James Brown, Built to Spill, c depp, Neko Case, Johnny Cash, June Carter Cash, Cat Power, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Chopin, Cocteau Twins, John Coltrane, the Commodores, Sam Cooke, the Coup, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Damon and Naomi, dead prez, Death Cab for Cutie, Desmond Decker, John Denver, Neil Diamond, Ani Difranco, Dirty Projectors, Dizzee Rascal, Donovan, Duran Duran, Bob Dylan, Edo G, the Fall, Ella Fitzgerald, Fleetwood Mac, Galaxie 500, Gang of Four, Marvin Gaye, Ghostface, Goodie Mob, the Gossip, the Halo Benders, Husker Du, Ida, the Innocence Mission, Interpol, Mahalia Jackson, Jay-Z, the Jesus and Mary Chain, George Jones, King Geedorah, the Kinks, Rahsaan Roland Kirk, Kool Keith, Fela Kuti, Talib Kweli, the La's, Lady Sovereign, Ladytron, Les Chauds Lapins, lispector, Lords Kitchener and Beginner, the Magnolia Electric Co., MF Doom, Charles Mingus, the Minutemen, Mission of Burma, Modest Mouse, Mogwai, Thelonious Monk, the Monkees, Mos Def, My Bloody Valentine, Neutral Milk Hotel, New Order, the New Pornographers, Stevie Nicks, Nico, Sinead O'Connor, Outkast, Pavement, the Pixies, Portishead, Postal Service, Pretty Girls Make Graves, early Primal Scream, Prinzhorn Dance School, Quannum/Solesides/Latyrx, Radiohead, Red House Painters, Otis Redding, R.E.M., ride, Ned Rifle, Kenny Rogers, the Rondelles, Rover 78, Schubert, Sigur Ros, Judee Sill, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Sleater-Kinney, the Smiths, the Softies, Songs:Ohia, Sonic Youth, the Spinanes, Candi Staton, Steel Pulse, Stereolab, Cat Stevens, Stone Roses, the Sugarcubes, Sun Kil Moon, Swervedriver, The Thermals, Tracy + the Plastics, Tupac, Vast Aire, Velocity Girl, the Velvet Underground, Victory at Sea, Violet Nine, viking moses, Tom Waits, Dinah Washington, The Wedding Present, Wire, Bill Withers, Stevie Wonder, the wrens, the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Yo La Tengo, the Young Marble Giants, Mirah Yom Tov Zeitlyn, Billie Holliday died for our sins, yeah, its a lot...how much time ya got....

d. I have a real weakness for sake don, seaweed salad, duck, and cheesecake. (Not all at once.) The only thing I can't stand is orange marmalade. I try to eat at least one vegan meal a day.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Black coffee, Moscow mules, at least one Moleskine, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, le cinema, hope.

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
N/A
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
N/A
Income
$40,000-$50,000
Kids
N/A
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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