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likelybliss

49 / M / Straight / Single

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:12am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
When you get to know me you will find that good, kind, sweet person that we're all looking for. That truly is the easy part of the equation because that's who I am. What isn't easy is finding that chemistry, that spark, that one moment early on in a relationship when you realize, "Wow – this is going to be special!"

You'll learn that I'm much more than I appear and younger in many ways than what my drivers license would lead you to believe – I blame genetics, and how I live my life. I'm strong but I'm not a fighter, unless it's something worthy of fighting for. I have opinions, but I'm not opinionated. I have intelligence, but you'll probably only see it when you need it. I am honest to the point of being frank, so you'll never have to guess what's on my mind, but this will always be a discussion between two with compassion. I wear my heart on my sleeve... it's a big one and it beats strongly!

I want to walk the beach with you, hold your hand, cook our meals together, sit under the stars and make our own music, cuddle by the fire with a glass of wine in the fall, spend time with our family and laughing with friends. Toss in tons of outdoor sports and activities, travelling, staying fit and healthy, cottaging, theatre, concerts, dancing, dining, and you've just begun to scratch the surface on who I am.

I have two brilliant, beautiful, smart and sensitive children, that are my life and are with me half of the time. Along with their mother we do a marvellous job of co-parenting, and maintain an involved and communicative relationship. My kids will be my number one priority for many years, if not forever, but if you are the right one for me I know they'll gladly share me with you. If you have kids, I know you understand.

I previously had listed a few fairly specific qualities I'm trying to find in a partner... most were common sense type of things, and all were written with a sense of humour. Sadly too many got their knickers in a knot over it, so let's try this one...

You...
...have a great sense of humour
...like to travel (near and far)
...appreciate the arts
...revel in always being treated like a lady (except for when you want to revel in being treated another way ;) )
...prefer a beach to a pool
...can balance your cheque book (who writes cheques any more?!)
...live in the present
...not drown while swimming
...have broad musical tastes
...enjoy doing most things while also taking occasional pleasure in doing absolutely nothing
...hopefully accept that I'm not perfect at everything but will love what I am perfect at...

...then I think I'd like to meet you.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying my best to give more than I take.
I’m really good at
Problem solving and listening... not in that order. Oh, and seeing that the glass is always full! Not just metaphorically!
The first things people usually notice about me
My boyish good looks and my sense of humour... also, not in that order!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Song of Ice and Fire series, The Follett Century Trilogy, Pillars of the Earth, Clan of the Cave Bear series, anything by Harlen Cobin, Nelson DeMille, the occasional biography and too many others to list!

Movies: The Usual Suspects, Elf, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Life of Brian, Snatch, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Die Hard, The Sting, Collateral.

Shows: Any classic comedy or musical at the Shaw or Stratford... will always consider something good more local too.

Music: The Clash, Ben Folds Five, The Black Keys, Weezer, The Jam/Style Council/Paul Weller, Arctic Monkeys, Muse, Arcade Fire, Sam Roberts, The Hip, Elvis - both! tons of new stuff and of course all the classics... Beatles, Zep, Stones, Who, Beach Boys. There's very little music-wise that I don't like!

Food: Anything but organ meat and bugs! Ick!
The six things I could never do without
1. Snuggles with my kids
2. Red wine
3. Hugs
4. A sandy beach
5. The perfect kiss
6. Summer weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...things I shouldn't be thinking about and not the things that I should, but I'm mindfully working on that!
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night... but if I had to pick one it's usually my night to decompress.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I absolutely love the feeling of... oh wait... if I admitted it on a public website it wouldn't be a private thing anymore, would it?! You almost had me with THAT trick question!

Hope I passed the test!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you enjoy smiling, and can see yourself in some of my words.