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37 Menlo Park, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 5
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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The mountains crafted me - daily dips in the Sierra water, the trials and tribulations of snow-life and shovels, summer hikes and wildflowers, along with a loving and hard-working family helped to nurture me. I bopped to the coast for a spell, hung my hat in the bay for college. Tahoe for ten, back here for a while… I’m a California girl-- one who layers with merino wool, has got tricks up her sleeve, likes both logistitics and go-with-the-flow, turns mundane into a fiesta. Don’t worry, I can shmooze with power people in the big city, but am more likely to be rocking a flowy skirt, glistening-like-the-morning-dew and inspiring passionate action and conversation, than executing tactical business deals and blinging everyone out.

Interesting travel opp’s around the world have been fun (some related to music, some work, some pure pleasure)… saved a couple lives along the way, and put out some fires (literally). I sing, brew elixirs, write, totally get the hots for awesome dudes, contemplate change and influence, and mediate [metaphoric] wolves (on occasion). Been woking on my tele turns, and my track stands lately.

Turn ons? Pizazz paired with productive. Appreciation of awesometown, and crazytown, and the variety of weather, routine, emotion, etc. in the mix. Living in the moment, and contemplating more. Passionate and poetic execution. Value of the creative (in both arts and engineering), and observation of a colorful installation piece, sharing of a critique on something mechanical. Co-commenting and learning from each other. Social responsibility. Compassion. Propensity to explore and find fun and adventure. Smarts, silliness, a sweet bass line, healthy good nourishment, a tasty microbrew, some sass and seduction, human spark. Being impressed and excited by another-
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing the things that make me happy-- playing music, projecting and making things, fixing stuff, interacting in fun and memorable ways. I like to get into the backcountry and backpack, ski, hike, bike, enjoy the sun, rain and snow. I also really like my job working with college students in outdoor leadership and wilderness medicine. I contribute to a vibe of creativity, and being part of a team that works hard, enjoys, has fun, adventures, and makes an impact.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... brainstorming, smiling, makin' people feel good, adjusting to the environment, connecting people with experiences, musical improvisation, conversing, thinking about random things, finding pleasure in wondering and wandering...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably this authentic smile. I tend to make up useful words, which make their way into others' vocabulary. and that I'm an optimist and pretty positive...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Stacked high, books l like the best, I read fast, and then forget, but also just started a book club so we could discuss (and enjoy wine). Don't really like scary movies and wonder why there are so many about chainsaws. I like action, dramedy, commentary on life/love/interaction and curious perspectives where I learn something or transport to a different time/life/other for a spell.

Music - dig all sorts of styles-- equally seduced by grooves like Beats Antique, as I am the left-brain wizardry of the Punch Brothers mastery, as easy ride of the Rolling Stones, or poetic mastery of Joni Mitchell... and so much more... I love love Lake Street Dive of-late. I will front a band like this at some point...

Food? Fuyu persimmons, almond/chocolate/cranberry trailmix, burritos, presentation that catches my eye.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
endorphines, senses, good people, hearty laughter, sparkling smiles, mystery...
exercise, companionship, conversation, a headlamp, warmth, watercolors, instruments, mind, sunscreen, creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strangely, silly-ly: little observations, and wondering who else notices them. Figuring out relationships, non-verbal communications, detail-work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up with friends, headed off on an adventure, playing music in a fabulous venue, cooking up something delicious, discovering a hole-in-the-wall, enjoying the company I'm with, and making it memorable...
You should message me if
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- There's something about me that turns the spark
- you evoke awesomeness and think we might complement each other in fun and interesting and curious ways
- you're witty and thoughtful
- you like getting out and about, hiking, enjoying, being outside, doing stuff, thinking, sharing, however/whenever...

Woo me with a next step, or just say hey!