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liketheromans

30 Oxford, OH Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 19–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:56pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
a midwestern heart, country-roots raised in the mitten state on a dirt road down the way from a trailer park.

chicago and milwaukee owned most of my 20's, school and doing what kids do and then some. i've been living collectively in various coordinations throughout 'adulthood' (arguably beforehand as well, chore charts run deep), and have traveled a good deal through the lower 48 on performance tickets (perpetualduskatcurtsycaverns.bandcamp.com --- for a sort of listen) and this for some dated reading (http://issuu.com/plumberriespress/docs/tiptown_-_perry). i've fumbled my way into a teaching position in (more or less) rural ohio and am constantly missing punks and degenerates. i've streaks of anarchist, activist, artist, pagan, witch, queer, poly, etc. all running through me... and miss having folks close who can at the very least relate if not teach and/or passionately volley with me.

i'm conscientious and considerate, engaging and (mostly) articulate. i can sometimes be a handful in terms of too many ideas at once... but i'm generally able to offer myself to a conversation on almost anything. i miss late night discussions that mean something. i miss parties with a purpose. i miss non-biological family and closed-loop systems. i miss. i miss. i miss.

also, to be upfront and crystal clear, i am currently in a committed non-monogamous relationship with an amazingly talented and intelligent person who has decided to keep off of this site for sake of it being mostly a wash of cis male drooling and dumb tongues. they tired of sifting the junk, but might resurface someday or other for you to bask in the glory when the essays and theses are sweetly snuffed out.

again, i am very much alien in the town i live in and long to know folks who are open-minded/conscientious/creative/driven/community-oriented in the cityscapes near and beyond... would love to hear what was happening in cincinnati/dayton/hamilton/richmond/yellow springs/covington.

i feel as though this is all over the place, and i apologize. it is difficult, as you know ,to summarize the multitudes in any one of us into these little boxes, but thus is the way --- the digital self portrait is an art of its own. either way... beyond what what i have thought to give as initial impression --- please do inquire at will. i'm actually quite articulate when the opportunity to be so seems a promising one.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
plotting a resurrection through an slinky genderfuct alter-ego. sifting the modes of spirit and left-hand paths. writing letters. performing. growing. foraging. processing. dressing up. dancing. planning an escape. practicing radical self-love. practicing emotional literacy. learning. loving. letting go. making do.

self propelled study of homeopathy, of experimental literature and art, political cosmologies, astrological microcosms, ancient astronauts, folk lore, book arts, geology, history, etc.

practically --- i recently finished a master's program in poetry. i am now adjuncting as an english instructor and traveling in the time between semesters performing poems and songs and other things. i run a small literary press, and curate events of communal and artistic natures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making messes smell better for the sake of guests. discoursing the devastation, potential, and causality. offering compliments to whirlwinds and breezes alike. constructive criticism over a long lunch break. anxiety-surfing. following through on tasks both menial and over-whelmingly impossible. throwing up antagonistic or otherwise unabashed encouragement. taking terrible pictures from off the walls of restaurants. walking long distances in bad shoes. traveling for free to cheap by singing in front of a bunch of faces and fingers. being sincere about my preference for the cold. loving those undeserving alongside those who are, longing for something substantial, lusting in the morning. being reverent of custodians. navigation by nose. cohesion under pressure. oral sex in three speeds and with varying pressure. and on in dribbling accumulations ad infinitum.

i honestly have a rather agile singing voice, quite a sense of rhythm and an agility behind a drum set, a way with words, a way with people... and references to prove it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm sure there are a variety of things. i currently have on very lively blue nail polish.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
warning: the following lists will contain unabashed plugs for those considered peers or contemporaries, thereby some of this list is perhaps miserably obscure... the purpose in doing this (and i do feel some humbled purpose is essential to validate such an onerous demand of your attention) is of course to entreat you unbury these names and relish in the things they do... i will be sure to catalogue some more well known artists to offer suggestion of my tastes to a broader audience.

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prose: djuna barnes, herman melville, donald barthelme, aldous huxley, john barth, vaclav havel, italo calvino, alfred jarry, ray bradbury, william s. burroughs, laurence sterne, dorothy parker, jr tolkein, anias nin, samuel beckett, d.h. lawrence, aphra behn, zora neale hurston, okla elliot, eileen myles, unica zurn, megan giddings, shakespeare, others. many others.

poem: wallace stevens, russell edson, walt whitman, sylvia plath, mina loy, guillaume apollinaire, ted hughes, stephen crane, matthew arnold, john berryman, hannah weiner, the baroness elsa von freytag-loringhoven, kenneth patchen, jackson mac low, ed dorn, rob halpern, nick demske, dolly lemke, amos tutuola, franklin rosemont, arimi baraka, ee cummings, catherine wagner, aase berg, mc hyland, daniela olszewska, gene tanta, evan willner, susan schultz, kritsy bowen, matthew klane, erika jo brown, sarah fox, jennifer karmin, laura goldstein, chelsea tadeyeske, cynthia spencer, etc.

screen: guilt pleasures: thelma and louise, a league of their own, the craft, natural born killers, the crow, etc. --- also animators jans svankmajer, jim henson, jiri trinka, will vinton. documentary, serial productions of an educational nature, etc. been known to enjoy other things. wish i knew more film-makers.

definitive of song: very album oriented, ... that being said...
songstresses such as tori amos, kate bush, fiona apple, pj harvey, etc. also industrial staples (think wax trax/nettwerk/nothing records) spastic jazz metal amalgamations (think early relapse/hydra head/robotic empire/now or never records and subsequent) weirdo or eerie folk (think secretely canadian, ashmatic kitty, jade tree, polyvinyl, etc.) a list of rad lady emcees --- jean grae, hip hop such as aesop rock, old dirty, outkast, bone thugs n harmony, clouddead, and so on... wait... what have i done... i can't exhaust all of these... folk music, mo-town, classic rock, r&b, prince... it never ends... huge fan of cassettes so the nostalgia factor is not lost on me.

recent spins: janelle monae, jean grae, ponytail, dark dark dark, the locust.

definitive of sight: gustav klimt, alphonse mucha, jules cheret, aubrey beardsley, russell mills, late 19th century german realism, francesca woodman, rosie ships, edie fake, kenneth patchen, etc.

definitive of nourishment: raw garlic, brussel sprouts and sprouts in general. eggs. spinach. kale. kumquats. pomegranates. carrots. yogurt. beets. lentils. brown rice. dark chocolate, nuts of all sort, morels, shiitakes, maitakes, sea vegetables, fresh things. vegetarian is me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
productivity. language. intellect (of my own and those around me). water. inspiration. collaboration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the historical applications of shame. equality. disaster. how memory is made obsolete by home movies. the sociology of cities, neighborhoods, communities. collectivism. the roots and implications of myth, folklore, religion. familial disintegration or cooperation as the case may be. the world between the things i sense. universal formulations. sexuality. non-monogamy. genderfuck. the distribution of wealth. the futility of sententious and cannibalistic socio-political movements. theorizing vs. acting. food production. language as a cognitive system. the possibility of a larger life force having an investment in the smaller ones which occupy the universe as we know it. the potential of people. growth. the uselessness of art when only fashion or antagonism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
typical?

insomnia.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
this line is fine -
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you would like to invite me to something interesting.

you can hold your own in a debate.

you love deeply and sincerely.

you would like to trade a back massage.

you spend most of your time productively.

you appreciate collaboration and cooperation.

you are open to or interested in non-monogamy/polyamory.